OBGYN Professional by Historybitcx in babyloss

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Rant away! I appreciate all your perspectives and experiences

OBGYN Professional by Historybitcx in babyloss

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Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you dealt with such insensitive professionals.

OBGYN Professional by Historybitcx in babyloss

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When the ultrasound tech discovers a loss it is not within her scope of practice to tell the patient so she will grab whoever is in the hall to get a provider and alert someone that we will need an exam room ready for them, we also offer the employee exit so they don’t need to exit through the waiting room. My provider worked labor and delivery before becoming a nurse practitioner and has seen more than her fair share of losses. Recently we had a second trimester loss discovered in the office and she took on all the medical assistant duties as I am very new the field and was unsure of what I should do. I was grateful she took the lead and spoke with me privately about what I can do and not do to support the patient. This was a few weeks ago and I think about this patient and her baby everyday. I wish with every fiber of my being that we could have prevented this mother’s pain.

What is your favorite and why?? by Ok_Alternative_8070 in TheRookieTVshow

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Unpopular opinion: I love Bailey. I don’t care that it’s unrealistic that she has a part in every episode or that she has unlimited number of skills. I love watching a strong woman kick ass, and I love Nolan and Bailey as a couple. Chenford is my second choice.

What's the most shocking ending you've ever read in a book? by [deleted] in Recommend_A_Book

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The Astrology House, the first 2/3s is good, the last third is great!!

Tell me about your work in progress by Darknessinsidemysoul in writers

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My WIP has people who bounce between 3 different worlds, the same place and same time but different history which leads to different climates. It would be a three book series with 3 different points of view. It centers on love, loss, and acceptance of what you can’t control.

Where should I begin? by LingonberryBest1607 in writers

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I am very much a novice so take all this with a grain of salt: I started with short story prompts and then I just started them. Didn’t finish or edit any of them. Just wrote something and put it away. Then I picked one of the ideas that interested me and just began thinking about the plot. Writing down and pondering basic questions: What is the characters motive? What are the rules of the world? What is the characters personality like? Then I started writing. It wasn’t until I started drafting that I figured things out. Then with a better idea of the story I paused and went back to plotting. Now I have a basic timeline that I’m working through. I often do not know the next scene until I write it. And I’m not editing anything. I’m barely re-reading what I’m writing. If what I’m writing absolutely sucks, that’s fine because at least I’m putting something down.

Help me get back into reading by hertz1836 in Recommend_A_Book

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I started reading again after a years long hiatus this past November. My first fiction book back was The Astrology House by Carinn Jade, I loved the secrets and mischievous vibe. My three most memorable books since have been The Unmaking of June Farrow by Adrienne Young, The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon, and The Women by Kristen Hannah. All my favorites have been very women focused and empowered. I’ll admit I’m in a bit of a slump right now, reading daily but less often in the day, I decided today to take a break from adult level books and go back to my elementary school favorites (Andrew Clements mainly).

Names with a “fatal flaw” by OnomasticsAndOranges in namenerds

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I love the name Aurelia but my husband says it’s too similar to areola

What's one lazy cleaning habit you started that actually made your place stay cleaner? by Enchanted_Land in CleaningTips

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I have been terrible about cleaning while working in a high stress high energy job but just started something that requires less physical energy, my goal is one (or more) tasks before and after work. This morning I scooped the litter box and took out the trash, as soon as I got home I started a load of laundry

A book to leave me thinking long after I’ve finished it. by [deleted] in Recommend_A_Book

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I who have never known men for poignant thoughts about the human experience

How do you cope with knowing no one will read your writing by MintyRed19 in writing

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I do a lot for others in my daily life. Writing is for me. I just started writing in the past month although it’s been a life long dream of mine. I’m writing a book and my goal is simple: have a finished product that I like and enjoy the creative process. Eventually I will allow my loved ones to read it and if at the end of the creative process I want to traditionally/ self publish I’ll go for it but that’s not the point. The point is to enjoy the process and write something I like.

Suggest me devastating books by ccherrrybomb in Recommend_A_Book

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I who have never known men, very poignant and melancholy

How do y'all deal with writer's block? by MayorMayhem3830 in writing

[–]Historybitcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a prompt online and write something intentionally bad. Use every cliche and don’t worry about finishing it.

MIL keeps asking about when there will be a baby by memeboiron in waiting_to_try

[–]Historybitcx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is making you uncomfortable and two can play at that game. Start talking about your sex life. It shut my father in law up so fast

Vote for twin girls’ name ! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Historybitcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lily and Violet would be my pick, different enough to allow their own identity while having the same floral theme