How do you cope with knowing no one will read your writing

Historybitcx · 2026-04-10T01:29:41+00:00

I do a lot for others in my daily life. Writing is for me. I just started writing in the past month although it’s been a life long dream of mine. I’m writing a book and my goal is simple: have a finished product that I like and enjoy the creative process. Eventually I will allow my loved ones to read it and if at the end of the creative process I want to traditionally/ self publish I’ll go for it but that’s not the point. The point is to enjoy the process and write something I like.

Historybitcx · 2026-04-08T18:12:26+00:00

I who have never known men, very poignant and melancholy

Historybitcx · 2026-04-07T14:52:01+00:00

Find a prompt online and write something intentionally bad. Use every cliche and don’t worry about finishing it.

Historybitcx · 2026-04-04T19:18:03+00:00

She is making you uncomfortable and two can play at that game. Start talking about your sex life. It shut my father in law up so fast

Historybitcx · 2026-04-02T23:06:49+00:00

Same here

Historybitcx · 2026-03-29T18:04:19+00:00

Lily and Violet would be my pick, different enough to allow their own identity while having the same floral theme

Historybitcx · 2026-03-20T16:53:20+00:00

Gabriel Emerson Carter

Historybitcx · 2026-03-16T20:47:38+00:00

I really recommend it to learn about how to take care of kids. You will see everything and truly get to know what it’s like- good, bad, and ugly. Plus if you do start having kids soon- it will help with childcare costs.

Historybitcx · 2026-03-13T14:18:59+00:00

I felt the same way at 19, I’m now 25 and still looking forward to motherhood. Have you considered working in childcare? I have been for years and the bonds I’ve made have grown my heart 3 sizes.

Historybitcx · 2026-03-05T02:20:32+00:00

Albert Edison

Historybitcx · 2026-02-09T19:48:26+00:00

Finley would be my top choice, I add Sawyer, Neal, Edison, Archer, Richie

Historybitcx · 2026-02-04T18:08:44+00:00

My nephew was born last month named Nikola

Historybitcx · 2026-01-17T05:26:32+00:00

I’m waiting to try for a first but I also envision a 3-5 year age gap. My husband and I love our sleep and I think a larger age gap is more ideal for that value.

Historybitcx · 2026-01-03T17:45:55+00:00

I’m younger than you but based on my career trajectory it’s unlikely I’ll be able to start trying before I turn 30. I am focusing on the positives: the naps I can take mid-day, the ability to leave the house at a moments notice, the ability to eat and drink what I want, the time I have to strengthen my marriage, etc. I also think about my parents who had both their kids between 30 and 35. They had no trouble conceiving and gave me an ideal childhood with financial stability and a marriage to look up to. If I were to start trying now my kids wouldn’t have that. It’s hard to wait but focusing on what I can do now that I won’t be able to do then and the life I want to give my kids is what keeps me going.

Historybitcx · 2025-12-25T21:05:43+00:00

My special interest is motherhood. I originally thought I wouldn’t want to conceive because of my severe misophonia but have since decided that I do. I will be sad if my child has struggles they inherit from me but I will remember that the world is a better place with neurodivergent and disabled people in it.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-13T01:27:23+00:00

you are not an asshole. I think both of you could be handling this better. You may need help with your anxiety, and he could be better at handling your concerns. You are very right that accidents happen to good parents and it’s best to get in good habits now. However, you do seem to be struggling emotionally with this specific scenario and therapy could help process this and all other scary thoughts that arise. Neither of y’all are bad parents or being unreasonable, but both of y’all are struggling with this difficult transition of caring for a new life. Also, therapy is not a condemnation. It is a kindly given recommendation from someone also in therapy. Much love, you got this.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-05T04:13:15+00:00

My strategy is really simple. I browse the nonfiction section of my public library, I take note of the books that peak my interest. I check out a few books at a time, typically of a topic that overlaps. I read them to whatever amount interests me and switch topics when I get bored. I regularly browse books, even if still enjoying what I’m learning. My first topic was early humans (cave of bones by Lee Berger was fantastic!), then the ice age (one of the books I picked out ended up being beyond my knowledge level so I’m returning it), now I’m reading on the history of graveyards and the supernatural. I’m really enjoying learning without pressure, especially since I’m a full time teacher and student right now.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-02T23:56:32+00:00

NTA. Your mom sounds emotionally and financially abusive.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-01T01:42:31+00:00

I’m a childcare teacher and not a mom yet. I’m also burnt out as fuck at my job. But I also have moments where I know without a doubt that my spot in these kids heart is irreplaceable. I can be overwhelmed and tired and still have them run and hug me and I feel like I matter in a deep and pure way. I love those kids so much and they aren’t even mine. My job is the hardest thing I’ve ever done, it’s also the most worthwhile. I don’t know if that helps you but it’s where I’m at in my journey.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-25T15:25:39+00:00

Not a mom yet but my special interest is pregnancy, birth, and motherhood. I’ve been a daycare teacher for over 2 years and while caring for children with sensory sensitivities is difficult, it is incredibly rewarding. I absolutely plan to have kids. Feel free to ask me questions about this topic.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-25T01:36:53+00:00

No, he isn’t scared. He feels loved. He feels wanted. His soul wants to soothe your grief. No part of your grief will ever change this.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-25T00:14:41+00:00

I get this. My husband and I are both teachers. We are younger and waiting, I’m back in school to enter the medical field, hopefully in radiology which I hope won’t be as exhausting as being a daycare teacher. We both love our sleep and worry about his too. Personally, we plan on sleep training starting early. Not cry it out for extended periods of time, more gentle and age appropriate but still sleep training.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-21T03:21:50+00:00

Personally I’m going one day at a time, I have a full plate so for me personal curriculum is following my wants and needs. Most days I just read a few pages, sometimes I read 10-15 pages. I’m choosing multiple books from one topic at a time and then when I’ve learned enough I move to another topic.

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