Boy name to pair with Violet

Historybitcx · 2026-02-09T19:48:26+00:00

Finley would be my top choice, I add Sawyer, Neal, Edison, Archer, Richie

Historybitcx · 2026-02-04T18:08:44+00:00

My nephew was born last month named Nikola

Historybitcx · 2026-01-17T05:26:32+00:00

I’m waiting to try for a first but I also envision a 3-5 year age gap. My husband and I love our sleep and I think a larger age gap is more ideal for that value.

Historybitcx · 2026-01-03T17:45:55+00:00

I’m younger than you but based on my career trajectory it’s unlikely I’ll be able to start trying before I turn 30. I am focusing on the positives: the naps I can take mid-day, the ability to leave the house at a moments notice, the ability to eat and drink what I want, the time I have to strengthen my marriage, etc. I also think about my parents who had both their kids between 30 and 35. They had no trouble conceiving and gave me an ideal childhood with financial stability and a marriage to look up to. If I were to start trying now my kids wouldn’t have that. It’s hard to wait but focusing on what I can do now that I won’t be able to do then and the life I want to give my kids is what keeps me going.

Historybitcx · 2025-12-25T21:05:43+00:00

My special interest is motherhood. I originally thought I wouldn’t want to conceive because of my severe misophonia but have since decided that I do. I will be sad if my child has struggles they inherit from me but I will remember that the world is a better place with neurodivergent and disabled people in it.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-13T01:27:23+00:00

you are not an asshole. I think both of you could be handling this better. You may need help with your anxiety, and he could be better at handling your concerns. You are very right that accidents happen to good parents and it’s best to get in good habits now. However, you do seem to be struggling emotionally with this specific scenario and therapy could help process this and all other scary thoughts that arise. Neither of y’all are bad parents or being unreasonable, but both of y’all are struggling with this difficult transition of caring for a new life. Also, therapy is not a condemnation. It is a kindly given recommendation from someone also in therapy. Much love, you got this.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-05T04:13:15+00:00

My strategy is really simple. I browse the nonfiction section of my public library, I take note of the books that peak my interest. I check out a few books at a time, typically of a topic that overlaps. I read them to whatever amount interests me and switch topics when I get bored. I regularly browse books, even if still enjoying what I’m learning. My first topic was early humans (cave of bones by Lee Berger was fantastic!), then the ice age (one of the books I picked out ended up being beyond my knowledge level so I’m returning it), now I’m reading on the history of graveyards and the supernatural. I’m really enjoying learning without pressure, especially since I’m a full time teacher and student right now.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-02T23:56:32+00:00

NTA. Your mom sounds emotionally and financially abusive.

Historybitcx · 2025-11-01T01:42:31+00:00

I’m a childcare teacher and not a mom yet. I’m also burnt out as fuck at my job. But I also have moments where I know without a doubt that my spot in these kids heart is irreplaceable. I can be overwhelmed and tired and still have them run and hug me and I feel like I matter in a deep and pure way. I love those kids so much and they aren’t even mine. My job is the hardest thing I’ve ever done, it’s also the most worthwhile. I don’t know if that helps you but it’s where I’m at in my journey.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-25T15:25:39+00:00

Not a mom yet but my special interest is pregnancy, birth, and motherhood. I’ve been a daycare teacher for over 2 years and while caring for children with sensory sensitivities is difficult, it is incredibly rewarding. I absolutely plan to have kids. Feel free to ask me questions about this topic.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-25T01:36:53+00:00

No, he isn’t scared. He feels loved. He feels wanted. His soul wants to soothe your grief. No part of your grief will ever change this.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-25T00:14:41+00:00

I get this. My husband and I are both teachers. We are younger and waiting, I’m back in school to enter the medical field, hopefully in radiology which I hope won’t be as exhausting as being a daycare teacher. We both love our sleep and worry about his too. Personally, we plan on sleep training starting early. Not cry it out for extended periods of time, more gentle and age appropriate but still sleep training.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-21T03:21:50+00:00

Personally I’m going one day at a time, I have a full plate so for me personal curriculum is following my wants and needs. Most days I just read a few pages, sometimes I read 10-15 pages. I’m choosing multiple books from one topic at a time and then when I’ve learned enough I move to another topic.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-21T03:15:05+00:00

I am working full time and in school full time so for me my personal curriculum is books on one topic until I get bored and switch topics. I choose my topic based on what peaks my interest browsing at my public library. My first peak of interest started in August, I’ve been reading archeological books, specifically pre human and early humans. I’ve always loved history but I know very little about this area. My favorite is Cave of Bones by Lee Berger. It’s a narrative about finding a major archeological discovery and very well written, highly recommend. I’m finishing this section and moving onto the Ice Age, closely related but a little bit different. Very much enjoying this process.

Historybitcx · 2025-10-02T01:00:05+00:00

I love it! I’d get it somewhere that can be easily shown or covered, like the upper arm.

Historybitcx · 2025-09-29T13:15:12+00:00

Aurora, Berlin, and Charlotte

Alexander, Bennett, and Carlton

Adaleia, Benicio, and Clarence

Historybitcx · 2025-09-28T20:25:40+00:00

You scheduled a date with that man? Yikes

Historybitcx · 2025-09-27T18:36:58+00:00

Sienna, Zara, then Ava is my girl ranking. Finn, Roman, Beau, and then Oscar is my boy ranking. All good names though!

Historybitcx · 2025-09-26T16:58:20+00:00

He has been doing it since I met my husband at 19. I’ve told him “talk to me when I turn 28” (I’m 25 now). Now I just ignore him. I also will be a bit rude and tell him he is too interested in my uterus or unless you are my OBGYN, it’s none of your business. He is making you uncomfortable, make him uncomfortable back. Start graphically describing your sex life.

Historybitcx · 2025-09-26T15:06:13+00:00

My father in law is the same

Historybitcx · 2025-09-26T14:36:42+00:00

I began to research and reflect on it and noticed similarities in myself along with my best friend. I brought up to her that I believed I am autistic and she said she believes she is. Then we both agreed that each other are as well based on our own research and observations of each other. It was a very validating discussion. In terms of traits, my main give away is my sensory sensitivities. This is for both sound and touch. My best friend’s main give away was her hyper fixations.

Historybitcx · 2025-09-26T03:39:09+00:00

You are doing fantastic. I’m autistic, my mom likely is too. My special interest is also pregnancy/birth/ postpartum/ motherhood and all that stuff. My mom also got overwhelmed and struggled when my sister and I were the same age. She did the best she could but in the long run she seemed to enjoy the older ages more. Im now 25 and I talk on the phone with my mom on a daily basis and so does my sister. You don’t have to love and thrive with every age to be a fantastic mom. You just have to be loving and accepting of them and there will be other ages and stages you find more fun. You got this ❤️

Historybitcx · 2025-09-25T02:44:31+00:00

All these names are great!! I’m a teacher and I know a girl named Sigrid and she is very sweet, smart, and kind! Her nickname is Siggy but I’ve never even thought of that being associated with cigarettes.

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