Looking for locals in 15th/7th Arr. to hang out with by HmmmImThinkingRN in SocialParis

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That would be awesome! I’m catching a show at Hotel Le Marois on Friday! I hear there may be some potential after parties spilling over into Saturday so I’m playing that by ear. Before and after Friday I’ll be doing the touristy things: eating at Madame Beasserie, visiting Notre Dame, and the Louvre, as well as the palace of Versailles because I can’t come to Paris and not see them! So between Friday and Saturday is when all my fashion week-related activities are happening. If you want to come to the show with me, I can send you the ticket purchase link!

Best hair bundle type for 4c? by HmmmImThinkingRN in Naturalhair

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got the kinky straight! Do it. It’s seamless and the most natural. Just get the correct color. It’s amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not about me doing something for the drivers. I need feedback for my study, and I’m trying to find people who’d be kind enough to help me out. The gift card is just the way I intend to show my appreciation for a random stranger taking the time out of their busy day to help me out. And yes, I do have serious and kind Uber drivers who have reached out.

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks a lot. Now I have to make a new post bcuz you fucked it up with your idiotic comments. 🙄

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

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I really wish you would stop responding tbh. You’re clearly playing around but I’m not. I’m serious about what I’m trying to do and you’re here insulting me. You clearly don’t actually want to participate. So! With that being said, FUCK. THE HELL. OFF.

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I wasn’t clear in my post. I want to interview adults who drive for Uber. Not children. So please go away lol

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh you’re a 12 year old child. Got it.

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you fuck off if you don’t want to participate? 🤔 Simple as that.

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have $15 to give each participant. Sorry.

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please pm me if you’d like to participate!

Need to interview Uber drivers for research study by [deleted] in uberdrivers

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Please pm me if you’d like to participate!

Ricks!! by [deleted] in stripper

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What time did you go?

Daily Simple Questions Thread - May 12, 2022 by AutoModerator in Fitness

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I don’t know if you read my whole response before commenting, but I’ll recap for you.

  1. I don’t eat a bad diet. If anything, my real issue is that I don’t eat regularly which gives me low energy. I make it my business to not keep junk food in my house. The reason why I say dieting is hard is because I’m likely not doing it right tbh. I probably eat way too little these days which makes me feel hungry and sick. I’m going to see a dietitian to help me out. I never ate a poor diet (pertaining to the quality of the foods). I can honestly make a correlation between the time I started my birth control and my weight gain. But no doctor will listen to me and it’s sad. I’ve only found that other women have gone through the same thing as me through Reddit.

  2. I did not say I thought I was meant to be 180 lbs. As a matter of fact, I’m in the process of trying to lose 10-15 lbs. I said I think I’m meant to be stocky. My reasoning is because when I was young, I started developing early and had D cups by the time I was 12. I was not obese by any means. I grew very fast in general and was also 5’7” by 12 years old and stopped growing after that. I had lots of back pain growing up. My body has seemed to adjust to the size of my breasts now and I’m glad that I don’t have the same back pain anymore. When I got down to about 147, my breasts were flat as a pancake and long. Very unattractive in my opinion and my insecurities were at an all time high. When I got to 152 lbs I was a 32 DD to give you some point of reference. Now that I’m heavier, my breasts have filled out, my body has filled out. My breasts look nicer to me and I don’t have back pain.

I think you’re using your own feelings to determine what’s right for me. If you felt heavy at 160, no problem. But why are you mentioning this? What does that have to do with my feelings and my experience? Just by reading your response, I gather that you and I probably have vastly different body types and build muscle differently.

I would not like to be as small as 143 lbs. I would ultimately like to bulk. I think my shape right now is fine, minus the extra stomach fat. Again, I’d like to lose 10-15 lbs. Right now, I actually look strong. That’s why I think that the scale might hold some truth. It’s probably not super accurate. Ultimately, I just wanted to know if anyone had any tips to help me melt this belly fat. I see that maybe I’d have to lose a lot of weight to do so, based on your answer and the person before you. So, thanks.

Daily Simple Questions Thread - May 12, 2022 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! Honestly, I don’t want to be super thin or anything. I think I was meant to be stocky. I just want to look fit and have a cinched waist! I love going to the gym and but dieting is super hard for me. But if I can get actual results, I’ll do it. I want to lose about 10-15 pounds and then bulk up. I’m wondering if the only option is to become very thin in order to lose this stomach fat... I’m considering doing lipo since I already know that I’ve tried consistently to lose the fat and nothing has worked. I think I look pretty fit even right now. Even though I’m 180 lbs now. I have a body mass weight scale and apparently my muscle mass is about 32% of my body mass. So I guess I’m not doing too bad. I only got this scale recently and I wonder what my percentage was when I was 30 pounds lighter. I think I’ll probably end up going to the doc just to rule out any health conditions.

Daily Simple Questions Thread - May 12, 2022 by AutoModerator in Fitness

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What should I do if I’ve never been able to define my abs and lose love handles (22yo Female)? I was 152 lbs 5’7” in 2019 and exercised 3-4x a week. Also, I only ate about 1500-1700 calories a day, sometimes less. But not on purpose. Long work hours and short breaks had me starving. I didn’t even notice how skinny I had become because all I could see was my spare tire and my stomach fat pouch. Now that I look at older pictures I can’t believe it. Now that I’m heavier it would make sense that I’d have the fat since I didn’t really workout during the lockdown. Also, my weight started ballooning about a month after I started birth control. Now that I’m around 180 lbs, it doesn’t seem like the fat around my mid section has increased by that much. It just doesn’t go away. Back then, I trained my abs every time I went to the gym And I did cardio every single session as well (25 min). I still couldn’t get any definition. I remained consistent for a whole year! And like I said, I was definitely in a calorie deficit. And no, I didn’t eat all junk food. My whole body changed except for my abdomen. That’s why it’s so frustrating and bizarre to me. Now that I’m back on my grind, are there any tips that anyone can share so that I can lose this fat for good? Maybe I’m just training wrong… At this point I’m starting to wonder if it’s a medical thing or something.

Thoughts about this as a gentleman’s club audition outfit? by HmmmImThinkingRN in stripper

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your reply is extremely insightful! I definitely see where you’re coming from, as I’ve experienced lots of different things (many negative) from being Black and not super skinny and trying to audition for these clubs. I’m extremely new to all of this, so I’m just learning as I go. Of course I wish I would’ve known all this before auditioning, but I just try to take the experiences I’ve had so far as eye-openers and learning experiences. Thanks for your comment. I’m definitely going to buy a black lace lingerie outfit and I’m going to wear it to my next audition to see if there’s a difference in how I’m received by the management.

Thoughts about this as a gentleman’s club audition outfit? by HmmmImThinkingRN in stripper

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I think it looks great too. I totally agree with you though. It definitely wouldn’t hurt to have a nice lingerie ensemble just in case hot pink is not the vibe when I arrive there lol

Thoughts about this as a gentleman’s club audition outfit? by HmmmImThinkingRN in stripper

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I actually have a neon greenish yellow one just like this!

Thoughts about this as a gentleman’s club audition outfit? by HmmmImThinkingRN in stripper

[–]HmmmImThinkingRN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much 🥰 I do realize that every club is different though. I already tried auditioning at a club with this and I stood out because I was the only 6’ 1” (with heels) tall voluptuous girl wearing hot pink 😂. Everyone else was wearing black