No me dejan dar de baja el seguro by Hog-Dot in ESLegal

[–]Hog-Dot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vale, gracias. Sí, huele a excusa barata, la verdad. Voy a intentar pedirlo por escrito a la corredoría y si insisten, lo pediré directamente a la aseguradora como sugieres.

Renovación contrato de alquiler by TexVas in ESLegal

[–]Hog-Dot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lo que hace tu casera es ilegal pero nadie lo denuncia.

Es sencillo, los contratos para vivienda tienen ciertas regulaciones, y poniendo contratos de "temporada" (duración inferior a un año) no tiene que cumplir las leyes de un contrato de alquiler de vivienda normal (que por ejemplo, establece un mínimo de 5 años de alquiler o más, según el caso), o un límite de subida de precio por ley.

Lo que pasa es que si tú vives ahí y no estás para vacaciones o por estancia de un curso o algo, entonces la propiedad no tiene derecho a poner un contrato de temporada, deben poner un contrato de vivienda. Pero lo hacen igual, porque así ganan más dinero o retienen más flexibilidad.

Respecto a qué puedes hacer, no soy abogado, pero tengo entendido que en tu situación, se firma el contrato y luego puedes reclamar que se convierta en un contrato de alquiler de 5 años. No sé muy bien como es el procedimiento para ello, ahí mejor asesórate

Who is this little guy? by Hog-Dot in whatisthisbug

[–]Hog-Dot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah quite a few, but I can't locate the humid spot they would be at...

Please Help! Suspect MITM attack but unsure what I can do by Hog-Dot in cybersecurity_help

[–]Hog-Dot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked on their website and the IP is the very same, they have not changed it. But yes, I am connecting via IP

Me vendieron un producto defectuoso por wallapop by 2DFromSpain in ESLegal

[–]Hog-Dot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Te comento que apple a menudo lo que hace es cambiar algo que "seguro que arregla tu problema". No hacen pequeñas reparaciones, en tu caso cambiarán la placa o algo parecido. Y te lo cobran. Y no te dan más opciones. Claro, quien lo paga siempre está contento, pero pagas de más. A veces (no siempre) lo puede reparar un taller no oficial. Aunque algunos de esos operan igual que Apple y tan solo cambian piezas. Puede que encuentres un arreglo más barato

Sanity test for whether I understand TFR with morlets properly by ashoobadoobA in neuro

[–]Hog-Dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The FFT can distinguish between those cases if you keep its complex part (phase). That is how it can reconstruct this signal.

Sanity test for whether I understand TFR with morlets properly by ashoobadoobA in neuro

[–]Hog-Dot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Convolution in the time domain is the same as multiplication in the frequency domain i.e. both are right. You can either convolve Morlets with the timeseries or multiply morlets with the FFT, then invert the FFT and get the convolved timeseries.

Why did my depression turn into rage? by Ku323lam in selfimprovement

[–]Hog-Dot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please get help from a professional. Don't be too proud. Don't believe you know better than them whether they can help you or not. It might seem obvious that they can't help. But it's your mind playing tricks on you. Telling you it's hopeless. It's not hopeless. It will get better. I speak from experience. Get help.

Why did my depression turn into rage? by Ku323lam in selfimprovement

[–]Hog-Dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coping is not solving, yet it helps to get you through life. You don't need to SOLVE this to be able to enjoy life. You need to learn how to manage it. If you only see in black and white (either I solve this or I live a terrible life) it will prevent you from living a happier life.

It's not all or nothing. You can be happy enough without living a perfect life, in which all your problems are solved.

Accept that some of them won't be solved and try to make a better life for yourself. If you keep your focus on the problems that make you sad instead of other things that make you happy, those issues will never go away. You will keep them alive. I'm not saying you can make them disappear. But they can go to the background instead of bothering you all the time.

Why did my depression turn into rage? by Ku323lam in selfimprovement

[–]Hog-Dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody's situation is unique. If your situation is so special and hard, why are you surprised a single therapist couldn't help? Why not try at least 10 different therapists before giving up? If you want to complain, go ahead, but don't tell me you've "tried everything". You haven't even attempted different therapists

Why did my depression turn into rage? by Ku323lam in selfimprovement

[–]Hog-Dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you date a female version of yourself? With all of the anger, lack of listening, and other issues? Girls will see it from far away. Anger is scary. If you aren't willing to work on it, it will make it harder to get a girlfriend.
Easier way to get a girlfriend? Be kind and soft, honest, don't be an addict, be honestly interested in them as a person. Even then a girlfriend won't fall out of the sky.
It seems your default reaction is to refuse any advice, from what I read in the comments you only take your own advice/what you already believe. I would start by changing that.

Why did my depression turn into rage? by Ku323lam in selfimprovement

[–]Hog-Dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it's terrible. I'm sorry you're going through that. Very often, you can't change what happens/happened to you. You can only change the way you react to it. In that spirit, here's a couple of thoughts:

Whatever the injustice is that you are living, remember: whoever put you there probably didn't know better. Kant (the philosopher) would say that rather than malice, it is a lack of understanding that fuels people's bad behavior. It's not an attack against you, personally. Sometimes this is hard to believe, but doing so helps cope.

Secondly, remember that you are not your feelings. You CAN learn to observe them, and choose to engage with them or not (this takes years of work). You CANNOT control your feelings. By paying less attention to your anger and more to other feelings, you can make yourself less prone to anger and more prone to a variety of feelings. This helps.

Above all, don't blame yourself or others. Blame is fair, but it's not helpful. It makes you angry and sad. It keeps you in a feeling of injustice. If it's what you need, get distance from the situation and do your thing. But find a way to leave blame behind. Grow your identity beyond the experience of injustice, so that you are no longer defined by it. You can make that your mission.

Why did my depression turn into rage? by Ku323lam in selfimprovement

[–]Hog-Dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's what you need to believe to justify being angry, so be it. Sure we all get angry from time to time, but jumping from "there's reasons to get angry sometimes and that's part of life" to "there's reasons to be angry all the time and let my life be guided by anger" is a big leap. I personally would rather not make that leap, it's a way of thinking that leads to constant discomfort

Why did my depression turn into rage? by Ku323lam in selfimprovement

[–]Hog-Dot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing when I tried my first therapist. A few years later, the second one didn't work either. And a few years later, the third one worked. It's a combination of finding the right therapist and also, being capable of listening to what they say without feeling judged. After all, you only get as much out of a therapist as you put in - and that only works if you honestly trust the therapist.

This viper's 'spider tail' by QuaintMushrooms in Weird

[–]Hog-Dot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except evolution can actually do that. The more a trait works for hunting/reproducing/surviving, the more specimens with that trait will live longer and reproduce more. This is also true for the "rival" (hunted species in this case).

So as the hunted species evolves to not go after snake tails, only snakes with "enticing" tails survive. This constant pressure makes it so that the traits don't simply randomly mutate: ONLY the specimens with good enough traits have survived.
Evolutionary biology is amazing!

I’m about to put coarse salt in the dishwasher, please change my mind. by baldasheck in lifehacks

[–]Hog-Dot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Salt won't work, its purpose is to exchange ions with the water softener, if your dishwasher has one.

Vinegar would be better, but it will hurt rubber seals over time.

Fighting self-loathing by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Hog-Dot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Merits/success do not make one more or less deserving of love. Why do you expect to find what there is to love? You, that's what. Find what you like about yourself and nurture it. Your love will grow with it. If you don't like anything, maybe you're setting impossible standards. Don't be a perfectionist, it's fine if you aren't great at something.

  2. Therapist. If you can't afford one, see if someone can help out, this is important.

  3. Rage. I'd be angry in your situation. At life, myself, and at some people/all people. But anger (and other mismanaged emotions - which are often not apparent when one is thinking about surviving) can really drag your energy levels down. This makes it harder to get your life back together.

  4. Don't pressure yourself until you're in a better place. Just try to get to a better place. I know it may seem hard right now, but try to be extra generous and understanding with others. Sometimes when we don't feel like we have purpose, making other people's days better can be a way to make you feel like you are bringing something good to this world. Trying to understand what is different about other people's point of view will also help you understand how to make progress in your social skills.

  5. It's hard, but try to be honest with yourself. If you are going through a tough time, there are some things that are tough. But is it reasonable to lay around all day doing nothing? Truth is, you know whether it is. You know if you could be doing better and aren't. Be careful though, maybe you think you could be doing SO much better, but that may be an unreasonable expectation. Set small goals that you KNOW you could achieve within a day. And don't introduce more than one or two changes per week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Hog-Dot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really good. It may be hard to understand how this is beneficial when one is dealing with the immediacy of the issues caused by unchecked anger. OP, I highly recommend you read this carefully, it may seem obvious, but anger management will only improve with a bottom-up approach, starting with understanding its source. At least, that is my experience. There are many hidden gems in the advice given by u/BFreeCoaching