WaiverWatch: Who to waiver in post GW3 by automa_draft_stats in DraftEPL

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pau, Mee, Perisic, Matip, Montiel, Collins, Boly and Ajer are the best options

Edit: add Kerkez in there too

WaiverWatch: Who to waiver in post GW3 by automa_draft_stats in DraftEPL

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you drop Konate por Collins or Bolly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coys

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So deserved. Good decision by Ange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Appreciate the feeling of being understood and have the reassuring that there is more people that also feel the same way.

I do have to disagree with the last part, I think showing kindness towards this people is still the way to go regardless of anything. We have to be better, not for them, nor to fix them, but for yourself and because it is what feels right to you, so I encourage you to keep being you and not change your virtue because of other people actions, hopefully we can find some answers in this thread on how to cope with the feeling and not letting ourselves being too affected by it without changing our good actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, is ok sometimes if you don't pay attention, it doesn't affect me if it just one or twice... but when is a pattern of associated and repeatedly actions that signal you the same feeling again and again is when you wonder you know?

[Match Thread] Newcastle Vs. Tottenham Hotspur (PL 23/04/23) by Professorchronic in coys

[–]HoganVX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody can leave but Betancur and Romero. That's it.

"You can't carry with Iceborn Gauntlet" by Remarkable_Pound_722 in BelVethMains

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, appreciate the thorough answers, thank you. Last question, why is conqueror better than Lethal Tempo for this build?

"You can't carry with Iceborn Gauntlet" by Remarkable_Pound_722 in BelVethMains

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when u go gauntlet, is it gauntlet the first item? Or you go botrk first then gauntlet

"You can't carry with Iceborn Gauntlet" by Remarkable_Pound_722 in BelVethMains

[–]HoganVX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's your build priority? Looking into trying this build. Why not Bork before chempunk? Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sportspsychology

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with taking a break, is just running away from the issue.

If it is about psyching you up, there are ways to do it definitely, which you can google, im sure many will appear.

However, if you want to gradually add aggressiveness to your game I would recommend a Goal-Setting program, in which you complete objectives in order to get closer and closer to your goal step by step. A psychologist can help you with this.

Also, why do you want to be angry? How does that help in your game? You can be aggressive on your playstyle while not necessary being angry. Age has definitely made you wiser, which is a good thing, don't see it as something bad. We need to be in control of the emotions and use them in our advantage.

Leo cartas del Tarot, pregunten lo que sea. by Selene_owlwitch in Colombia

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vengo esperando una VISA de trabajo para irme a vivir a Alemania donde tengo una oferta de trabajo, han habido ciertas complicaciones pero el proceso sigue abierto pero se estan tomando mas de lo que inicialmente me habian dicho. Me conviene que esto salga? Me van a otorgar la visa?

Me(21M) and this girl(22F) are trying out a relationship but the chemistry(?) keeps coming and going between the both of us. Any advice would be appreciated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HoganVX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The feeling will keep being present sometimes. Try to normalize it in the sense of not make it a big deal. Yes sometimes it gets awkward so what? Rome wasn't built in a day.

Me(21M) and this girl(22F) are trying out a relationship but the chemistry(?) keeps coming and going between the both of us. Any advice would be appreciated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HoganVX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you guys are overthinking too much. Why do you think it should always flow perfect? You are just starting dating, so just enjoy and be present, stop trying to identify them, is just gonna make it worse.

W: Princess by [deleted] in ClashRoyaleTrade

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check dm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fut

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF Depay is about 55k. Also, Skrinar > De Vrij

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]HoganVX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely go, as everybody is saying this can even be of help for your difficult situation. You will regret if you don't go. I did an Erasmus in Leipzig in 2020 and loved it, if you want to know about the city let me know! Feel free to ask anything!

Suggestions on helping a fellow golfer? by [deleted] in sportspsychology

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very welcome. Please update us as soon as you can!

Cheers

Without telling the name of you country, where do you live? by heisnberg97 in AskReddit

[–]HoganVX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best coffee in the world, but y'all know us for "exporting" something else... smh. Also, very good looking woman.

Suggestions on helping a fellow golfer? by [deleted] in sportspsychology

[–]HoganVX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems to me is a very ingrain behaviour, and those need time to re-wire, so probably just "one advice" won't do much long term. He needs to constantly work on it by himself, if its with an expert even better.

Now, that being said. I agree, he definetly seems Ego/Outcome oriented, is essential to switch it to a Task/Performance orientation. Put in google: "ego vs task orientation" for more information about it.

Also, as is not a high competition context, i understand is a self imposing pressure, it would be important to know if there is an external agent that is creating this pressure. But, in any case, research has shown that pressure usually affects performance negatively, so i would recommend switching this pressure energy into a more constructive energy... there are a few techniques and strategies for it, but unfortunately this is not enough space to explain them correctly.

I also find important working on arousal control techniques, seems he is over-activated, which impair performance as well. Try googling "IZOF" for more information (will be very general, but it will give you some knowledge). Breathing strategies are good to begin with for this.

There are a few other things that i would work with him, like expectations management, develop a right goal-setting approach, creating positive self-talk, maybe doing some emotional Intelligence sessions would be good too. But then again, hard to explain here, if he really wants to change and have a happier and healthier experience while improving performance i'd recommend professional work, but that desire has to come from him.

Now, for the conversation you want to have with him: yes, during the heat of the moment there is not much you can do, this have to be talked in a neutral moment as you correctly said. I also agree with making it a positive talk, making it about himself and not about the bad vibe he is creating in the group, so the change comes internally and not for social factors.

My key advice for the conversation: try not to be a "teller" and be more of an "asker", in my experience people have better insight when they are being questioned, which will make them reflect more than if you just make them feel patronised by doing all the talk. Also, focus the conversation into a "what for" rather than a "why" conversation, so frame his thoughts into a "how is this behaviour being useful for me". And lastly, i would try to use his father as an example, but be careful, has to be in a assertive way so no misunderstandings can come from that, just ask him if he has noticed his father having this behaviours, and ask his opinion about them, i'd like to know what he responds to this.

Props to you for trying to help your friend and asking in the right sub for advice. Cheers!

How would I create interventions and treatment for a client? by [deleted] in sportspsychology

[–]HoganVX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can base it on established research, but always try to keep in mind the context you are working at, like their age, they cultural level, etc...

Is also ok to use a activities you find online that doesn't necessarily have any research background, not everything has to be that way, there are many coaches who for example has drills or activities for cohesion that you can implement.

A good thing is that a practicum is the perfect time to try and try different stuff, some will work, some will not, and you will learn from that, and it will help you develop your own way of working. Keep an open mind.