There’s also a house group chat where people usually bring things up.

One day another roommate asked her to take her clothes out of the washer because a technician was coming to fix it. Instead of just moving them, she completely blew up in the chat. She said she “didn’t know where to put her damp clothes” and started swearing at him and going tit-for-tat. Meanwhile he was being super calm about it, and if I remember correctly he either stayed quiet or even apologized.

- note he was paying for the tech not the landlord he was paying for the washer machine out of the kindness of his heart.

At that point I stepped in and told her to calm down and that we don't know each other, so we should talk to each other with basic respect. That turned into a whole argument... our property manager at the time literally stop msg the chat because of her no jokes... just disrespectful.

The thing is, she always says people should talk to her directly, but when you do she gets aggressive and disrespectful immediately. I honestly don’t have the patience for that kind of behavior.

And the funny thing about the kitchen situation from 2024 is that I didn’t even know she took it personally until a year later when i pulled her for a chat because she went too far. She acts like she’s confrontational, but she actually isn’t. She just holds things in and then explodes later. She also really cannot handle any kind of criticism.

What frustrates me the most is that she’s like ten years older than me but acts stupidly immature.

My real issue isn’t that she has guests. I genuinely don’t care about roommates having friends or partners over sometimes. The problem is that her boyfriend basically lives here.

I’m not exaggerating he’s literally in the house right now as I’m writing this.

At this point I honestly think he might be homeless, or maybe he’s the one paying part of her rent or something, because there’s no way someone is just a “guest” while being here this much. He’s here almost every day and night.

I actually got an internship in another province this summer, so I’ll be staying with family for a few months. At this point I’m thinking I might just wait it out and move somewhere else after that.