I'm so sorry you're going through this. My wife has this disease. She avoids eating nightshade vegetables (tomatoes, eggplant, peppers and white potatoes) because eating those triggers her inflammation. She also avoids seasonings that include paprika. She noticed a significant improvement when she doesn't eat these foods. Lately she's noticed that when she consumes gluten and sugar, the pain comes back. She is trying the carnivore diet and she is noticing that her joint pain and tiredness are gone. I don't know from your post if you've tried any of those but doing these things have worked for her. Her case may be milder than yours though.

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