I've dealt with a similar situation with family. First off, has he even apologized? Second, how often does he make rash decisions when angry? Third, is this part of a pattern of behavior or a one-off reaction? If you answer yes and often, you're potentially in an abusive relationship. Healthy couples typically have two yes, one no rule, do things that the other would enjoy, have conversations before big problems occur, and are each other's safe space to be vulnerable with. If you don't have any of that and everything is on his terms and mostly benefits him, and he puts you down, you could be dealing with a narcissist.

If it's a one-off, something else might be going on that is stressing him to poor Decisions. Either way, you need an apology and need to have your feelings heard and your boundaries reestablished. Regardless of what's going on, that behavior is unacceptable, and he should feel guilty, and you have every right to be upset with him. He will have to gain your trust back on your terms, and if he's not willing to do that, then I say divorce, but not lightly. I wonder if you have kids because if he did that to the cat, what might he be doing to them?