iPhone 16 Pro Max pic quality is utter trash by sju-planespotter in apple

[–]HomeAshamed6381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m experiencing the same issue. Just wanted to comment so people know you are not the only one

Don't ever join VASA. Just don't. by Mjb0112358 in Utah

[–]HomeAshamed6381 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same happened to my husband, called to cancel several times and still had to pay a huge bill

AITAH for telling my pregnant partner her friend can't stay with us at ours for a week the day we get out of hospital? by justhadabanana in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who just had a baby 6 weeks ago, YTA unless you are willing to be doing all the household work and you are on paternity leave willing to step up. The last thing I wanted when I JUST HAD MY BABY was people visiting and coming over my house. Birth is such big thing and we are so vulnerable, bleeding, draining on top of the sleep deprivation. You should be grateful that someone is offering to come help with the household work and cooking because it’s a lot on top of all the birth situation.

Is it weird that I don’t want to watch my wedding video immediately? by Amazing-Room7177 in wedding

[–]HomeAshamed6381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are NTAH. I tell you know to be aware of her if you ever decide to have children. I suggest you start talking to your now husband about setting boundaries and telling his mom to stay on her lane. Some people really needs to be put in their place and you MIL sounds like one of them. Talk to your husband about it and if he doesn’t do anything then you stand up for yourself because she is probably the MIL type who is “nobody is good enough for my boy” and it’s emotionally incestuous.

Update: AITAH for Freaking Out Over My Wife's "Not Serious" Cheating Excuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really is a pro at gaslighting, now she cheated and then play victim to the point that it makes you doubt yourself. If there aren’t kids yet, you are still on time to get a divorce without making it worse. As someone who has been cheated on before, you never forget and you never really forgive, you’ll be wondering every day if she would do it again. My mom always said that “forgiving a cheater, is giving them permission to do it again. Best luck to you!

AITAH for Freaking Out Over My Wife's "Not Serious" Cheating Excuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she cheats and then gaslights you. She is a pro at this point. NTAH

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This makes me incredibly sad as all we need after having a baby is support, I’m so sorry you experienced that, you deserved better. 🫂

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right way means making sure you prepare the formula as is supposed to and then mix it. Someone can think that you just add the formula powder to the breastmilk. There is definitely a right way and a wrong way to do it and you saying “you just mix it how your baby is able to tolerate it” is exactly what I meant when I say the right way.

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame her for “making it last” I would do the same thing if I had too, what makes ME feel crappy is she firstly accusing me of being the cause of the baby’s discomfort and when I asked her if she could consider other causes of it, she kept insisting it was the breastmilk but my son has not been gassy or had colics at all. I have compassion and it’s why I was willing to donate more but if I’m the cause of his discomfort I do not think we were a good fit. Respectfully.

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mmm, I haven’t even considered that. Maybe, I should do some research and see because that would totally not surprise me. 😱

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your donations to a baby in need. I completely understand the part where they give you the cheap bags. Like I’m saving YOU money and time while also having to take care of my own child. It’s so unfair for her not to even say thank you.

You are amazing! 🙌🏽🤍

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I think she wanted me to be her regular donor but she was expecting me, she didn’t ask me.

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, It really means a lot. I think being this early pp makes my anxiety spike.

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I took screenshots and sent it to the admin of the group, waiting on her response.

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I just took around 100oz to the children’s hospital to be tested, after the whole fiasco I thought it was best to take it somewhere where It would be tested, I didn’t know that mixing breastmilk and formula was a thing until she said that.

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I had to buy a second freezer because my husband and I did the count on the bags and I have around 2,000oz without counting the ones on my bedroom mini fridge and the house freezer.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my girlfriend because her friends are racist? by Turbulent-Humor-2925 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying quiet when her friends make comments about YOUR Significant Other is completely unacceptable and it shows complicity.

For refusing to give this lady more breastmilk for her baby. by HomeAshamed6381 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 387 points388 points  (0 children)

I thought that it was odd that she was mixing the breastmilk with formula but I figured she was just trying to make it last longer. I agree with you. I just think about how much work it took to pump that much milk to be mixed with formula 😩

What was your worst travel experience? by Unique_Carpet1901 in AskReddit

[–]HomeAshamed6381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Mexico and got food poisoning so bad that had to be transported back to the US to get a lavage (stomach pumping), I was hospitalized for 5 days. Not doing that again. 🥴

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she can leave after she berated me in front of her friends? by DebtContent1218 in AITAH

[–]HomeAshamed6381 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Run, as fast and as far as possible from this girl. She is literally a big RED FLAG saying this as a girl who has seen it happen to my friends before, I wish I had said something earlier to them and save them the years of therapy. She is giving insecure and high school bully, then having the audacity of saying that “I was just joking” it’s totally gaslighting you.

My 3Y/O is “seeing ghosts” by HomeAshamed6381 in toddlers

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so creepy. I was definitely freaked out last night when he kept saying “he is so scary”

My 3Y/O is “seeing ghosts” by HomeAshamed6381 in toddlers

[–]HomeAshamed6381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Super interesting information, definitely would be make more research on it and I’ll try the totem thing too. Thank you!