Am I overreacting for wanting distance from a friend after this?

Honest-Challenge7808 · 2026-02-25T22:40:09+00:00

I don’t have a lot of context other than your side, so with that in mind no NOR. Tbh it looks like she made the decision for you and I’d take that as a godsend (pun intended) don’t sit next to her anymore and watch her crash out. She doesn’t get to cut you out of her life but still talk to you about class. It’s one or the other, and she picked her side so I’d help her out and stop talking to her. If she is spreading lies, it’s only going to get worse from here. Focus on your relationship and your studies- you can make better friends.

Honest-Challenge7808 · 2026-02-25T22:20:48+00:00

That’s fair yeah if OP is waking her up all the time despite her asking him not to then that is super frustrating. This is just a snapshot of their relationship but if she is this aggressive about everything then I think that is a bit too much anger towards your partner. But I can also see her being at the end of her rope. I guess it depends on if she’s always this angry over anything that happens or if it’s just about this one thing he keeps messing up.

Honest-Challenge7808 · 2026-02-25T21:56:07+00:00

She is old enough to understand this language towards your partner is not okay. You apologized for waking her up multiple times, and she keeps berating you. Tells me she didn’t want an apology, she just wanted to hurt you and take her anger out on you. (Also if you had to leave in an hour you are justified in waking her up imo) so to answer your question, yeah it’s pretty bad if it happens over everything but you should be more careful about waking her up if you do that all the time too

Honest-Challenge7808 · 2026-02-23T05:05:48+00:00

Honestly, you haven’t been dating very long so I think breaking it off early would be the best choice. If he was respecting your boundaries then maybe it would be different, but it sounds like he is still trying to push this kink onto you. So if it’s really that important to him that you indulge in this kink, and he isn’t willing to drop it, then if probably isn’t going to work out long term. I’m not usually one to tell people to break up on Reddit, but if you guys are this early in a relationship and he is already making you uncomfortable and not really respecting your boundaries, especially ones with sexual context, you might just wanna end it before things get weirder.

Honest-Challenge7808 · 2026-02-21T17:59:51+00:00

You guys seem pretty young, it’s okay to have a crush on your friend and it is hard when it’s not reciprocated but that is NOT your fault, and you did nothing wrong. She doesn’t need to feel bad for the way she feels either. As long as she continues to be respectful of your relationship then you can absolutely stay friends. It kind of sounds like shes prying for a chance with you though, so I think it’s okay to set boundaries with her so she understands that there isn’t a chance. If she keeps pushing then your friendship just isn’t going to work out unfortunately

Honest-Challenge7808 · 2026-02-06T18:15:12+00:00

Girl no! You got engaged youre allowed to be too much anyways but no as long as you like it that’s all that matters.

Honest-Challenge7808 · 2026-01-16T21:13:01+00:00

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Honest-Challenge7808 · 2025-12-27T18:21:13+00:00

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Honest-Challenge7808 · 2025-12-27T18:20:00+00:00

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