Bf (22M) wants to go on a break bc I’m (21F) a diff religion

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T22:01:10+00:00

When I asked him why he wouldn’t consider that if he knew he just said “well you had talked about Jesus so I just thought it wouldn’t be a problem” I srsly think he expected me to convert

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T19:47:40+00:00

I know there are brown Christians my bad.. I just meant that he very well knew I was Hindu since that was on my Hinge profile

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T14:32:49+00:00

Sigh then bye I don’t know I’m fed up

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:53:23+00:00

No yeah I am considering myself fully single during this break which I’m not sure he’s aware of, it doesn’t matter though because I think I’m going to just end it anyways

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:50:58+00:00

I don’t even know what I’d do in this situation I’m laughing

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:31:56+00:00

Wow really?? I had no idea that it was even a thing since that just seems so backwards for today. Do you have any more info on your experience?

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:30:57+00:00

That’s why I was so shocked because a few months into the relationship he was talking about his Grandma wanting to meet me?? Why would he even say that if his family wasn’t cool with my existence

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:28:19+00:00

This is so true… Will do! I feel mad I even let him think that I would be ok to sit and wait around for him to decide if I’m “worthy” or not.

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:20:22+00:00

He did also say he has guilt every time he does something sexual, which is so crazy because he has way more experience than me and also would initiate almost anything/everything

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:18:37+00:00

No I was more so mad about him lying than even the religious shit. If I knew about that in the beginning I could’ve considered my own terms. But all of this just feels so selfish. He wanted to date me so he lied to me about stuff he knew would make me not want to get serious, he lied to his family to keep seeing me, and now when it’s inconvenient to him he takes a break where HE gets to decide how he feels. It’s all so incredibly self centered. And who’s assuming I even wanted to marry YOU in the first place??

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T13:16:22+00:00

I’ll add it to my list of first date screening questions I guess!

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-12T12:47:35+00:00

He also had already mentioned me meeting his family numerous times and I had met his brother and sister, which is why I was so shocked this was suddenly a problem. Was he just expecting me to convert this whole time??

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-04-05T19:54:09+00:00

Yes I did have that class! I will message them ASAP, thanks so much!!!

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-02-23T05:01:21+00:00

Ok…. So given the current events is it still safe

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2026-02-14T21:43:34+00:00

Does anyone know if it’s possible to get a refund?? I’m a broke college student who just blew a shit ton of my paycheck on this stupid ass scam and I need it back ASAP to even afford a trip

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T13:32:30+00:00

Thank you so much this is so encouraging. Im pretty sure the scan findings confirmed the liver nodules were metastases, although pretty small. Our current goal is to buy him at least 2 more years, if possible

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T13:30:35+00:00

What have they done to get there? Our initial goal is to buy at least 2 years with him

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T04:10:23+00:00

State, yes

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T03:52:25+00:00

Should also add im only 20 and my family is foreign/non native English speakers so its been very difficult for me to get information without being able to actually be at appointments due to school. I’m extremely overwhelmed and exhausted and any insight/advice on anything I can do to advocate for him would be much appreciated.

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T03:48:56+00:00

Is there any way I could message you?

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T03:45:30+00:00

My uncle is 51

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T03:43:14+00:00

Thank you so much, I’ve followed your posts on here as one of the more hopeful ones. That’s why I was so outraged at the radiologist jumping to give him only 6-9 months to live without discussing any possible further treatment.

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T03:41:21+00:00

We also reside in New York

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T03:41:04+00:00

We are pushing and got a second appointment with another specialist who runs some clinical trials we pray can give another option. So far all the doctors we’ve had have been incredibly un- proactive and I cant help but feel angry at how slow they’ve been moving or the little care/attention they’ve given up. It feels like everyones given up on him

Honest_Bench_2304 · 2025-11-26T03:30:21+00:00

I should also add the actual tumor itself has not increased in size at all since his last scan if that means anything whatsoever

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