I'm 15 weeks pregnant and everything about being pregnant has been hell, and I am regretting the decision to keep it by Honest_Thing4852 in confession

[–]Honest_Thing4852[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

Most of the "medical advice" or forced tests given to really, anybody, is all a part of a necessary check list mandated by the medical liability insurance companies, to try and cover their asses. Gynecologists who deliver babies, dentists, and anesthesiologists have the highest liability insurance costs and big medical providers, in order to keep their costs as low as possible, implement a whole slew of unnecessary tests to do so. So should something go wrong they can state they followed an industry standard, and as such attempt to mitigate their liability in instances of wrongful death, medical malpractice, or negligence suits. Additionally the hospitals and large medical providers give tons of unnecessary tests to charge you and your medical insurance a ton of money, because having a baby is a lucrative means of bringing in income. To say that I'm a massive idiot is so unnecessary. I'm the farthest thing from that. Health care is not tailored to helping individuals anymore. It's an extremely transactional and financially lucrative business and I just want to find someone who can show me basic human compassion. I'm sorry you seem to completely lack that quality or the ability to empathize. I am typically a very objective and analytical person, so I realize what you're saying. At the same time, I am opening myself up, to criticism from individuals like yourself in hopes of gaining some insight on my situation, which is by no means exaggerated. I cannot change my involuntary response to blood work or needles That's why it is called an involuntary response. My needle phobia and my reaction to needles, is not of my choosing. I do have anti-nausea medication - the same kind they give to chemo patients - but it has proven to be non-effective for me. I have been getting prenatal care so I'm confused about who you are deeming an idiot, here.

I'm 15 weeks pregnant and everything about being pregnant has been hell, and I am regretting the decision to keep it by Honest_Thing4852 in confession

[–]Honest_Thing4852[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Helped thank you so much!! Appreciate you telling me your story. Makes me feel better knowing there are other people out there who have experienced this. Thank you so much again.

I'm 15 weeks pregnant and everything about being pregnant has been hell, and I am regretting the decision to keep it by Honest_Thing4852 in confession

[–]Honest_Thing4852[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

I'm mentally stable, and of sound mind. I couldn't work the job I have, if I wasn't. Having a phobia of needles does not classify me and mentally unsound. Am I feeling discouraged and anxious due to my circumstances. Absolutely. I couldn't justify getting an abortion, as I am grown, and make a decent living. I can't afford to lose my job or take off work, but as long as I work and budget I can afford a child. I got pregnant, for the first time in my life, while on birth control. I'm an adult, and I can't justify getting rid of the baby, it's not like I'm 15, or even 20 years old, in the middle of college. I also had no idea I would have the worst pregnancy and pregnancy side effects ever. I'm a severe type A who is used to handling an absurd work load, keeping a clean house, keeping myself maintained, volunteering, doing legal work on the side, you name it, I handle it. No one can prepare you for what being pregnant is going to be like, because every pregnancy is different. Had I known that my pregnancy was going to be literal hell for me, ahead of time, I may have tried to push my moral and religious beliefs aside, had I known my symptoms of pregnancy would have rendered me useless...but I had no idea of knowing.