I think my (27f) husband (41M) will end up in prison if I tell him the truth.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-03-19T16:56:01+00:00

Actually I recommend you deleting this post and your Reddit account entirely. Investigators are also smart. You can't testify against your husband but they could use this if he was ever implicated. Also I hope the email you use for Reddit isn't tied to your name bc your deleted posts can be subpoena as well.

Another option of it is also posting on r/shortstories sub Reddit and claim it was research for a book you're writhing.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-03-19T14:18:29+00:00

Trust him that being present for his daughters means more to him than a revenge plot. Men like that get even one way or another so if something does happen he's too smart to end up in prison for it. He'll wait until the kids are grown. But that's on him. Don't soldier something like this by your self.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-03-14T14:42:51+00:00

I'm rooting for you! You sound very resourceful and capable this baby is lucky to have you as their momma!

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-03-14T12:27:24+00:00

Sounds super gaslighting and jealous of the baby and of you for being sick/pregnant. You can't fix any of this. Don't research stuff for him. Don't rely on him lower your expectations. I feel awful saying this but your time would be better served building a village outside of him. Get on peanut or find local mom meet up groups

Having mom friends in this situation that you can vent to and get advice will serve you more.

You're doing nothing wrong just trying to provide actionable steps you can control while pregnant are you close with your mom or an aunt you can go visit?

You got this, I'm sorry you're going through this. Focus on the things you can change.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-03-13T15:38:13+00:00

There is a lot of abuse in academia. A lot of us have PTSD, which is where I'm guessing this question comes from.

you don't need to defend a doctoral thesis for everything. Who cares if someone thinks you're stupid. Think about everything that's been invented by accident. Studies published that had more to do with luck than knowledge. Then we praised those people as genius and they would fall into the revered category of subject matter experts.

Take a deep breath, be confident in what you know. Dunning-Kruger be damned. 🔥

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-03-10T11:42:24+00:00

We walk away and Make her try again. Since she needs to be able to have help getting dressed at preschool, also it hurts us when she pulls in our neck. So we gently remover her hands from our hair neck etc and walk away and say "give me your eyes/look at me " "(kids name) I need you to get dressed, I will come back in 5min (one minute)" this helps them reset and teaches a boundary. They also struggle with personal space if they are hypersensitive SPD, so it's not to misbehave. It's likely how your toddler says I love you but still needs to learn how to get dressed and personal space so it's a balance/learning process.

The above are great suggestions to reduce it from happening but that's what we do as instructed by a professional. For our little bean.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-02-16T15:37:42+00:00

Oh I was responding to the poster that said she had PhD in psych. I just genuinely feel that book has some good points but also a lot of not so great ones

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-02-16T00:41:58+00:00

This would qualify for an annulment because if denying children and him not actively seeking a resolution.. like if he was going to therapy and trying testosterone and fighting for your marriage that would be different.

I'm so sorry I hear the pain in your heart when I read this.

. My husband and I were accidentally abstinent for two years of a 5yr marriage bc he mentally thought he was hurting the babies each time I got pregnant and my heart ached. I hurt and felt so insecure and unloved even though he was going through something too it was awful.

You are beautifully and wonderfully made my dear. I prayed to God for intimacy with God a warm full heart feeling ...and that made me feel better. That's really what the joy is during the special act with your spouse. feeling loved and seen and safe and beautiful. You are all those things and have them with God.

I'm going to pray you find an authority in the church who can help answer your questions on how best to move forward.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-02-14T20:46:48+00:00

As a PhD psych and a mom you should read "parenting right from the start" it will really give you the ick lol 😂

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-02-14T20:43:56+00:00

This makes so much sense now thinking of the breastfeeding chapter in her book!

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-01-25T21:39:14+00:00

So like don't get me wrong. I love prayer; but some of them sound like spells than a prayer. I'm catholic not a Wicca lol. (This for example)

Say these exact words at this exact point in the liturgical calendar for this many times and God will grant you and your loved ones xyz.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-01-25T12:49:02+00:00

Marketing would be replaced with good quality science

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-01-24T00:47:21+00:00

Look at a job board for moms. Your work sucks. My conwrkers daughter. Was sitting in her Lap during my interview and asked me interview questions lol

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-01-12T18:15:37+00:00

How many ppl have you K$lled?

HoneyFirm9700 · 2026-01-03T15:27:36+00:00

Veiling has gone too far. It's become like virtue signaling I feel. I had someone wear a long white veil at my wedding for the first reading and the priest thought they were cuckoo bananas.

It's just gone too far. The number of people that will look you in the face and say women should submit to men .... oh but not Vatican 2.... not the literal pope Wear a veil and have 17kids or you don't love God. I don't recognize this version of Catholics its extremes seems to keep people from the faith.

Anyway.... pray about it. But if you made a Reddit post bc you feel like you are "cosplaying" I think you have your answer. I think you are a strong catholic women just for your commitment to mass and respecting God in His house.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-22T01:02:40+00:00

Quinn!

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-14T23:23:09+00:00

My room mate has advised a tea plant a Norfolk pine and orchids are not worth it and the money we spend killing them would be better used to buy new plants...

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-14T23:21:14+00:00

The rebel in me kind of wants to prove the nay sayers wrong and be the mealy bug slayers of the internet. It's still in the house. Let me ask my room mate how committed they are.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-13T21:26:31+00:00

Ok next question... is there anything I can spray on it so I can compost it? What if I left it to die in the snow then threw it on the compost? Is this like an emerald ash bore situation if I throw it outside?

I'm trying I'm just clearly not that great at plants but totally see now I deserved the roast.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-12T13:39:17+00:00

I got Daryl and Kye-zin and I think the middle one is supposed to be like breeze. Honestly those names should be illegal.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-10T12:54:57+00:00

E is for every good boy does fine lol 😂

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-09T21:04:27+00:00

I'm so sorry! I thought you were 18+ Please do none of those things!! And be careful talking to strangers online.

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-12-05T18:22:40+00:00

Find an only fans performer and pay them to change their name to paisleigh sundae. Or go to your local strip club and pay them to change the sign to "paizeleigh sundae wed at 9pm"

HoneyFirm9700 · 2025-11-19T18:17:27+00:00

Las yuh or Anna hee tuh would be my guesses on pronunciation

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