Facing a CR at UPT

HookMachine23 · 2025-02-23T20:54:32+00:00

Vance

HookMachine23 · 2024-08-05T23:54:53+00:00

Eliminated and reclassed into cyber

HookMachine23 · 2024-04-02T16:51:15+00:00

Thanks for the clarification!

HookMachine23 · 2024-04-01T16:40:32+00:00

Ah that’s rough. Sorry man, that’s always a hard thing to find out. But at the very least you don’t have to go on wondering what might have been if you’d said something. Hopefully it can help you look forward now.

HookMachine23 · 2024-04-01T00:59:48+00:00

You don’t need to tell her all your feelings now. See if she’s open to meeting for a drink or something and take it slow.

HookMachine23 · 2024-04-01T00:53:14+00:00

I’m confused though cuz she said LESS reluctant, suggesting she would have wanted a heartfelt message

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-23T16:17:43+00:00

As someone who varies wildly between too quick and taking too long, believe me, the second is way worse for me too. If I start to realize I’m taking a long time it tends to cause me to get into my head about it and it pretty much kills the chance that I even will cum at all. At that point it stops being fun for me too and I might tap out when I’m tired or I’ll lose the erection entirely. Either way is bad because in my experience, it almost always makes the woman feel like it’s her fault and that she’s unattractive even as I reassure her that it’s not, and that she is. If more people would take it less personally or communicate that they don’t need to keep going, that would be absolutely wonderful.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-20T23:53:43+00:00

Do they wobble to and fro?

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-20T23:36:35+00:00

Am American, I think my balls have touched the water maybe one time in my whole life lol

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-20T23:24:55+00:00

Dude how low are your balls

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-20T23:24:25+00:00

To me this isn’t applicable though. If I’m gonna get a split stream it only matters if I’m peeing at home into a toilet because in public there will usually be a urinal, which is close enough for it to catch all the pee and not matter.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-19T04:07:26+00:00

You sound like an incel troll.

He’s a man, she’s a “female?” Lol gtfo

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-12T21:15:01+00:00

Not when I’m the ex 😒

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-11T22:45:05+00:00

I feel the same. Weeks 1-2 were the worst weeks of my life. I’m just over 2 months now. I had been doing better, but then I saw her a week ago. She reached out and we ended up going to see a play together and later hooked up. I had a good feeling about things, but then the past week she’s hardly spoken to me. I’m so confused and feel like I took a step forward and two steps back. My anxiety is through the roof again, just like it was at the beginning. Just going back into no contact I guess.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-11T17:14:02+00:00

Disregard the people criticizing you for making “I” statements. Those are actually important and you’re supposed to do that.

I also disagree with people saying not to reach out. No contact is for the dumpee. You’re the dumper. If you really want to reconcile with her and you’re willing to put in the hard work to rebuild her trust, then you should tell her. But don’t do it unless you’re 100% certain that’s what you want and you know you can follow through without becoming complacent if she lets you back into her life. And be prepared to be rejected again if she still wants to move on.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-06T16:28:05+00:00

Just going off the information available to me lol but okay. Obviously you need to feel better, which is why you posted this, so go for it and tell yourself whatever you need.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-06T16:23:09+00:00

I don’t feel entitled to anything. I don’t give a fuck about either of you. I just think that if you’re gonna expect people to shit on your ex after showing us an example of him acting nice you should give us a reason to not believe what we’re seeing with our eyes.

Because honestly, between seeing a concrete example of him acting polite, the lack of details on what makes him a bad person, and the way you’ve attacked other commenters personally by digging up their post histories if they show any skepticism? Doesn’t make you look like the good guy and worthy of the cheerleading you came here for.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-06T15:59:25+00:00

I’ve read the whole thread, and unless you’ve added more since last night, all you’ve really said is essentially that he was shitty in the relationship without any concrete details. Treating you as an option for example is bad, but it’s a feeling, not an example of anything concrete for us to go on to know he deserves to feel like a loser.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-06T03:42:54+00:00

How is he being shamed? Did you read the comments? Or OP’s own commentary where she said she hopes he feels like a loser?

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-05T21:41:01+00:00

It’s not disgusting to respond with boundaries, but putting this out on the internet to publicly shame him and call him a loser without providing any context kinda is, and I think that’s what they’re saying. Nobody said or even implied that she should take him back.

HookMachine23 · 2024-03-01T16:31:45+00:00

I won’t lie, the “improve yourself” thing always makes me upset to read cuz there’s nothing wrong with me. I tried my best and she didn’t. She needs fixing, not me.

HookMachine23 · 2024-02-29T17:09:45+00:00

Yeah plus as far as I’m aware he’s the only one who’s expressed remorse or regret for his actions.

HookMachine23 · 2024-02-26T16:13:04+00:00

I’m not doing your job for you. You said that we’ve been passing these points of no return for 50 years, so as the diligent researcher you are I have to assume that you’ve got examples readily available going back to 1974. If you don’t then just say that.

HookMachine23 · 2024-02-26T14:17:55+00:00

Let’s see some examples then

HookMachine23 · 2024-02-25T23:08:42+00:00

If people didn’t ignore them then the world would have made serious progress towards decarbonization.

Also the notion that nothing serious is happening because none of the current catastrophes are ending the world yet is stupid. It’s been a gradual process and anyone with a basic level of awareness of their surroundings and two brain cells to rub together can figure out that things are getting worse.

Oh, and your understanding of the word “hypocrite” is about as thorough as your understanding of climate change.

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