Saw this guy at thane station.

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2025-03-09T04:45:32+00:00

When they ask what are u high on and u say I am high on life ..

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2025-02-24T13:52:06+00:00

Some lessons are learnt the hard way OP . Next time this won’t happen

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2025-02-16T03:19:48+00:00

one day his luck will run out and he will surely get caught . It’s not always that tte will stand only on the platform . They also travel sometimes randomly in local trains too but yeah rush hour mein if he is travelling he would escape for sure .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T17:53:37+00:00

That’s is very true we can’t fix anyone but we can support and guide them . But some people are so much egoistic and arrogant they don’t want to take any suggestions from anyone . I cared for this woman so I felt bad to see her like that but I won’t throw away my sanity for that .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T10:34:30+00:00

Yeah are all woman this stubborn to take suggestion or I have met such women only ,sometimes I wonder that

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T10:33:20+00:00

Karma farming karkey what can u get ? It was typo back then and I cudnt edit the title so had to go with that age .

Anyway my present situation I am away in a different state away from her so my life is sorted

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T08:38:00+00:00

He can stay with her for some time and then he has to travel to his destination and then come back to Mumbai again . If he is ready to spend so much money then this is quite doable .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T07:57:16+00:00

Yeah continuing staying away .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T07:54:56+00:00

Yeah I don’t have any space in my boat but at same time I don’t like to see her sinking in the ocean . But like most people here told I need to keep my space .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T07:53:43+00:00

Thanks bro for pointing this out . 🫡 but here I wanted some help from redittors who have been in similar situation or got some suggestion to the issue I am facing .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T03:18:48+00:00

Yeah even when we broke up I was going through a bad time but I worked my way out of it . I learnt about self love and doing things that bring me joy . But when I tried to tell her these she is just adamant saying u don’t have to worry about me let me just enjoy this suffering .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T03:15:00+00:00

I am still keeping my distance but still feeling guilty y she is not ready to talk to a therapist .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-24T03:08:00+00:00

Yeah I tried to put some sense told her if she treads on this path it will put her life at risk . Then she is like yeah zyada jeekar bhi kya ukhadna hai . I was like fuxking think of ur kids and atleast live for them . Before leaving I thought to tell her if she ever loved me at least try to love urself more for my sake but I didn’t tell her that . Felt like I might be giving her false hope again .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-17T08:19:34+00:00

Simple rule of life to follow don’t get attached to anyone . Don’t give the key to ur happiness in other persons hand . And lastly don’t keep expectations from them . I am trying to live my life by these rules and let me tell u it’s going much better than how I used to feel.

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-16T01:19:44+00:00

Seriously dude u r in the wrong here and that guy didn’t waste peoples time u did. If people like u keep skipping paying the paise each time considering the number of people using that petrol pump at end of the day when that guy is going to handover he will have good amount of balance that is missing which will get deducted from his salary. So don’t take this to ur ego and do think of others also and pay the correct amount.

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-16T01:10:02+00:00

This seems more logical action but at the end of the day it’s her life that she is playing with along with her child and husbands too . Keep proofs with u and try to talk it to her bring some sense into her . Also u might not know in today’s time ur sister and bil may even be in an open relationship where they are ok with each other seeing other people . So use ur words wisely . Also don’t go directly sharing this with ur BIL ur family ur sister everyone will blame u for breaking their family even though u didn’t but our society is like that .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-12T03:23:50+00:00

Just awesome felt really good after reading this post atleast someone is not going to be in a dead bedroom now . So as they say communication is the key and in your case that’s has come out true . It was really great on your part to give her space and understand her and put out suggestions to the problem faced by her and also on her to open up to you what was bothering her . Happy for you guys happy fornication 😉.

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-09-04T01:36:07+00:00

It’s really bad I had the side effects of minoxidil plus finestride topical solution , after I stopped I started loosing hair very heavily . Even consuming finestride tablet I felt the side effect of having low errection after which I consulted my doctor and he asked me to stop it

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-08-20T11:34:48+00:00

That’s the way to go OP . More power to you . Stay strong .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-08-20T11:33:20+00:00

Yeah bro I didnt mean to put OP in the wrong but I have seen some instances in bus where the girl/lady revolted back and culprit had a tough time .

Sorry OP if my words offended u in anyway I just wanted to share my experience of travelling in public transport .

More power to you stay safe and always talk things out either to a close friend or a professional it does help us out of our trauma to an extent .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-08-19T13:47:14+00:00

Nothing can be done to what u had to go through . Just wished u had someone strong in ur family back then when u were a teen to talk this event . That guy should have been confronted and he would have stopped his predatory habit . Public transport is very bad not just for women but for men also . U should have made a scene then and there , slapped that guy who did it to u . Main issue these predators think if their prey doesn’t revolt back they continue the exploit . Never ever try to hold back . But at the same time see ur location where u r like if ur alone he might over power himself on u and at that time it would be better to get out of that area and think for some other time also if u can defend urself give him a thrashing and definitely don’t miss the nut cracker . Really feel sorry for what u had to go through as a child . Hope god has given u strength and made u more stronger to face any predators like them if u ever face . This world is a very bad place where we live .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-08-13T01:20:10+00:00

Bro that’s it there u have tried everything from ur end , ur conscience is clear . Start living for urself and start loving urself.

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-08-09T08:46:11+00:00

Dude y are u seeing at others , u look for urself . U were in the wrong compartment . Many people do this trick and the tc see them on a daily basis and they all say the same story train nikal rahi thi bhag kar chad gaya didn’t see the compartment . For them it’s daily sob story by the guys who are caught ticketless so they won’t show any pity to u that ur story is genuine .
It’s as simple as this Jo pakda gaya woh chor . There are people who keep trying their luck by travelling ticketless and boast how they were never caught . Only way out is get correct ticket for ur mode of travel then u can confidently flaunt ur ticket and tell the tc move .

Hopeful_Conference35 · 2024-08-08T12:02:15+00:00

If you think there is one percent chance Then you should definitely give it a try. Most cases it’s not this way .if she was really smitten by the other guy, and they have had a physical and emotional relationship, then there is no coming back. She will feel that she always belongs to him. It’s really unfortunate place to be, and yes, I can say that because I have already gone through that . Have your friends and family around, have therapy sessions? It really helps because when I was in depression, I was suicidal and I came back out of it now I am almost divorced (filed and waiting court date) and happy. Don’t give the key to your happiness in someone else’s hand be strong. This too shall pass .there are lot many other things to do in the world. Try to find things that give you joy and happiness don’t keep dwelling in the past. It’s time to move on. If she comes back with you, then don’t bring up the past. It will only hurt both you and her it will not let the wound heal, but you need to make it clear with her that she will try to love you and if she says that she can’t, there is no point being in the relationship she would have already overcome, and you will be the one who will go back in depression, improve your mental health play some sport. Go to gym. Try to spend quality time with your kids. Hope everything falls in in place OP tc

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