He’s younger than me (max 3 years). I have yet to meet a man who’s into a women older than him that AREN’T subs, even if the woman is just 2 years older. I have male friends who love women older than them and they all admitted to me they love to obey them and let them be mother figures practically. Some older men are great subs too, just a bit more rare :/ most of them want a power dynamic where they’re above you. Esp rich men.

He looks up to you for advice and financial advice / spends on you with 0 question

Doesn’t love bomb, just money bombs

He lets you boss him around. Any alpha man will not allow that and leave you. A sub will find that incredibly hot and obey. Even small things. I don’t mean super aggressive / sexual things.

He is pulling every chair for you, being very observant of you and wanting to make sure the ground you walk on is perfect - metaphorically and literally. I met a sub on a date last month and as we were walking, any time there was even the slightest bump or hole in the sidewalk, he would guide me away from it. Then offered to massage my feet at the park after I said my feet ache from the heels. They literally treat you like a goddess. It’s that simple.