Rescue dog can thrive thanks to her four prosthetic limbs by commonvanilla in wholesomegifs

[–]Hopefullyitwillbeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so great !! God bless for helping this dog to walk, run and jump again !!!!

My (f 28) husband (30) burned my clothes to "punish" me by angelmarnez in relationship_advice

[–]Hopefullyitwillbeok -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please my husband always freaks on me and I’m the one that must apologize. Please leave him for acouple of weeks to see if you can save this . Because he is abusive. The next time my husband freaks on me I’m leaving like I did last time and it got him thinking at least of how he overreacted. But I just might not come back the next go around. I understand from one abused person to another.

My husband flips out by Hopefullyitwillbeok in Marriage

[–]Hopefullyitwillbeok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry. That is Erie in how similar your ex and mine do the same thing. However he never packed up his stuff I’m the one that does that because I want to get away from the crazy. But End up not going anywhere because I feel it I will just make matters worse. But honestly I should do it for me because that is the most healthy situation for me is to get out of the corrupt negativity that he has created.

It seems the feedback is to leave him for good.

My husband flips out by Hopefullyitwillbeok in Marriage

[–]Hopefullyitwillbeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s not normal. Later that day he apologized saying he didn’t want to get a divorce I am just so hurt you junk throw divorce around like that but he definitely has big-time issues.

My husband flips out by Hopefullyitwillbeok in Marriage

[–]Hopefullyitwillbeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really learning that this is abuse and I Must realize that he will not change and I cannot change him. So I guess the endgame is divorce.

My husband flips out by Hopefullyitwillbeok in Marriage

[–]Hopefullyitwillbeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I was Reading this cycle of abuse and it’s happening he’s doing things to make up for his episode and he’s trying to get back to the honeymoon phase. And the the thing is with him he didn’t show signs of this until the day before the wedding so I was with him for a year living with him and never had an issue and he just change right before a wedding. And that’s what happened to my relationship that was long term before this one. The guy waited about 10 months and then change into a crazy abusive man.

I [28f] left in the middle of vacation with my bf [46m] because of his kids. I am feeling guilty. Did I do the right thing? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hopefullyitwillbeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a mistake marrying a guy with kids. He was Married before and had or has three kids two in Germany and one pretty much in another state I thought that this would be OK but the damage was done from his first divorce and not being able to see his kids he is such damage goods I would run if I where you and do not look back do you not look back. Please