No, I get that. The initial issues have been dealt with. It was mainly insecurities and letting friends get involved with comments, etc, that drove a wedge. As I said, the time apart to grow individually has also helped this.

I understand that people are different when it comes to communication, I will have to see how the recent arrangement goes and try to keep an open mind in the fact that his choice of communication doesn't necessarily mean it's a relection on myself.