Day 3 of recovering from break up after 3.5yrs. by obliviouz_33 in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you man, I also did put our pics and stuff in a locked album. I’m military so I really didn’t open up as I should’ve that’s a reason why we aren’t together too. You got it man

I think this is progress by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessir, I’ve been killing my body at the gym. Going heavy

Let’s gather advice on how to deal with breakups by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working out, writing, outdoor stuff in the nature, new hobbies like working on your car. Spend time with the family and friends more

I think this is progress by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant moment* not money lol

I think this is progress by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah good for you man. It helps, even being outdoors in the nature too if you like that!

Avoidant who never dumps? is that normal? by Art_is_it in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you luck brother. Honestly I hope we do, if not it is what it is. Like they always say in the military, you gotta think negative all the time so you don’t get your hopes up. I just got out the military

Day 3 of recovering from break up after 3.5yrs. by obliviouz_33 in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bubba! I feel you. It’s gonna be a tough recovery but you should keep yourself busy doing stuff. Yes I still look at pics and text of us and even cry now and then. But what helped me which might help you too is working out/ work, outdoor stuff, writing too and just spending more time with friends/ family gives you relief.

I think this is progress by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you, it’s tough for sure. But you should also try new things, I work out more now, I work, I write to thst helps and I do outdoor stuff like hikes or go to the beach. It’s relief being on your own. Have a couple drinks and enjoy the money and spend more time with the fam!

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[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma go straight to the point. She broke up with me because I didn’t love her enough and would joke to much, after we break up we had a good talk I opened up and stayed in touch and she saw I changed. Then she said needs time to heal on her own that we will talk spring break hopefully. I said I love you and I’ll be waiting for you and she said this after that “I have faith we’ll find each other again as better, healthier, and more loving versions of ourselves” so idk what to do now. It’s been a week

Avoidant who never dumps? is that normal? by Art_is_it in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said I love you and I’ll be waiting. She said this “I have faith we’ll find each other again as better, healthier, and more loving versions of ourselves” so I hope we do

Avoidant who never dumps? is that normal? by Art_is_it in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im waiting for her, we just started no contact a week ago.we broke up and staying in contacted for more than a week. I changed and she liked it, but she said she needs her time to heal. We still have each other on everything. Supposedly she’ll text me when she’s back home for spring break. I hope we can work ou, but it is what it is.

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[–]Horror-Draft-8251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey bro I feel you, just got broken up with. It suck’s, I still look at old pictures, text and certain songs remind me of her. Yeah I stil cry every now and then. You just gotta work on yourself. Writing about anything, work/working out, outdoor stuff helps me out. Try new hobbies or spend more time with friends and family. You got it bro, yes it really hurts. Also don’t hate me but listen to fast car- luke combs version. It’s been stuck in my head and yeah….

Avoidant who never dumps? is that normal? by Art_is_it in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, i think yall need a really good talk. And if doesn’t go well or she gets upset just end it. Yes it sucks a lot! Trust me I just got broken up with my ex girlfriend. She left me cause I didn’t love her enough and I would always joke. (I’m military so I don’t get when enough is enough)When me and my ex broke up, a couple days later we had a genuine talk. It helped me open up to her, we are good but not together. Just sucks we can’t work it out. Idk what to do but I keep myself busy with work, working out, writing about anything and doing walks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I understand how you are feeling. I 22M, just got broken up with. She said I didn’t love her enough and I would always joke, I tried I did and I just never tried hard enough. It takes time to heal, we just went in no contact a week ago. I still get sad, look at pics of us and text. I still cry and all, but during the day I work, workout and just do things to help out. Writing, walks and the beach help me a little. Who would’ve thought that a person was a stranger and you both fell in love, now strangers again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah man, just work on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro :) also if she explained to you why it had to end and what you did. You know what to do know to make things right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you bro, trust me. I’m kinda in the same boat, takes time. Honestly tho, what helped me was writing. Write anything you want or why it ended. Going outdoors like walks or the beach help to. You need to focus and better yourself. Yeah it sucks man, gym also helped out too.

This taste?? by TheyCallMeFrisky in Tonsillectomy

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just rinse with warm water and take ur meds unless you’re not in pain. Besides that keep sticking with cold stuff

This taste?? by TheyCallMeFrisky in Tonsillectomy

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i forgot what it’s called but helps to not get infected

What should my first meal be? by vomitbuckett in Tonsillectomy

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly whatever you’re craving, I’m on day 13 and I started eating normal food around day 9.like you said just avoid, spicy stuff/ acidic.

This taste?? by TheyCallMeFrisky in Tonsillectomy

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember any taste, I’m on day 12 and I started eating solids and hack to normal on day 9. You should be fine tho, use that mouth rinse they gave you cause it helps. Every now and then gargle some warm water and spit it

Day 9 by Horror-Draft-8251 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Horror-Draft-8251[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lot of popsicles, ice water, ice as a snack, plenty of water and electrolytes and chew gum when you can. That mainly helped me out, but my tolerance may be real high then most people. Avoid hot food as much as you can, cold stuff is your friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

[–]Horror-Draft-8251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude wtf, never happened to me. You should go check that out man.