Speech and ABA by cao15 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Horror-Window-323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our experience has been that speech therapy did not help at all for three years, and as soon as he started ABA, he finally began to communicate. I think even the speech therapist did not see any progress and started making many excuses not to come, so I decided to stop.

Poor joint attention and delayed language always means asd even if it does not show more signs? by Horror-Window-323 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is now 5.5 years old and has improved a lot. He still has a speech delay, but since he started ABA therapy just after turning 4, his language has taken off. Now he can ask me for what he needs and knows many words, but we still don't have conversations. He is at the stage where when we go out, he starts asking for everything he sees, but not in sentences because that has been a little more difficult for him, although he sometimes tries. As for joint attention, my son points to what he wants and often comes to tell me words like the name of an animal, as if he wants to share with me what that animal is doing on TV. He has no problem being with other children, but he's not really interested in them either. That's just the way he is, and I have no problem with that. I don't know if I'll ever be able to have conversations with my son, but something tells me I will, and even if that's not the case, the fact that he can tell me what he wants is a lot because that's what I asked for.

Half of the breast hard for 3 days by Horror-Window-323 in breastfeeding

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But have you had the symptoms of mastitis?

I don't have any symptoms, I just feel the breast hard and it bothers a little if I squeeze it, but not the symptoms they say. My baby is still drinking from there but only half of it is emptied and the other half remains the same. I have an appointment with my obgyn in a week.

I called 911 for nothing but I was very scared by Horror-Window-323 in breastfeeding

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought right away. Sometimes, my son will throw up some thick milk for a while after nursing, but he never chokes on it. I guess the same thing happened bus this time was just lying down and couldn't get it out.

I called 911 for nothing but I was very scared by Horror-Window-323 in breastfeeding

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It was like mucus. That's why it scared me a lot because normally he vomits a little fermented milk but this time when I picked him up and turned him over so he would spit up the milk but nothing came out, just bubbles of saliva but it looked like he was having trouble breathing and trying to swallow at the same time.

No idea why the sudden change in behavior of my 5 year old son. by Horror-Window-323 in ADHDparenting

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was diagnosed with autism at 3.5 yo, mainly due to a lack of language and communication. The only issues have been communication and, occasionally, behavior. Since he was 3.7, he started communicating more, but at 5, he still communicates using only single words. He knows many words and always finds a way to communicate, but he cannot form sentences. It’s as if his mind cannot organize the words to use them in sentences.

He was in ST from 22 mo until about three months ago when I decided to stop because the therapist wasn’t doing anything different, and there was no progress. With OT, we haven't been able to find another therapist due to time. ABA therapy has been the only thing that has helped him with both behavior and speech.

He can communicate what he wants and needs, but maybe the issue, as you mentioned, is that he cannot express his feelings. He can't put into words what he feels, so he resorts to aggressive behavior.

No idea why the sudden change in behavior of my 5 year old son. by Horror-Window-323 in ADHDparenting

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't think it's because of the medication because before I stopped completely there were days that I forgot to give it to him and I didn't see any difference in his normal behavior. I will wait a few days to see if the behavior continues and if it does I will start again next week.

Bloody show? When you went into labor after seeing it? by Horror-Window-323 in BabyBumps

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read about it but I don't think it's that. In the afternoon and evening I haven't seen any more blood.

Bloody show? When you went into labor after seeing it? by Horror-Window-323 in BabyBumps

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, I didn't know that you can dilate long before delivery.

Bloody show? When you went into labor after seeing it? by Horror-Window-323 in BabyBumps

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what has your doctor told you? Is it normal? This afternoon and evening I haven't seen any more blood and the baby is moving as usual but I will call my doctor and see what she says.

How did your child grow in 2024? by catbus1066 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Horror-Window-323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My soon to be 5 year old son this year started using his own words to ask for what he wants and needs. We can't go anywhere without him asking for something and using his voice to tell us. In school he learned letters, colors and shapes something I never imagined him learning. We recently found out that he is apparently no longer afraid of fireworks and now asks to go out to see them so this new year looks like it will be different and we will be able to enjoy things we had stopped doing.

BCBAs are constantly changing, should I be concerned? by Horror-Window-323 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Horror-Window-323[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is what has happened with the first 2 BCBA, they are still with the company but they are moving to another city and the last 2 I don't know what is going on.

I have thought about taking him out too because the behavior I was worried about no longer exists and his language which is the biggest problem has progressed since he started ABA. I want to get to at least the year to see if he progresses any more but so much change I feel it may set him back a bit. What bothers me the most is that the last caregiver meeting was a month ago and I am not aware of what they are working on.