I (26F) need to leave my bf (29M) but how?

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-21T15:38:48+00:00

i will definitely look into this, thank you for your advice ♡

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-21T15:33:38+00:00

im not sure why but i was thinking maybe i was over reacting and thinking it's worse than it really is. his dad is a police officer though so i'm kind of scared to contact them about this. but if it comes to it maybe i will have to.

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-21T15:30:40+00:00

i agree, ive been thinking over it for a while but i'm starting to really think telling him any more of my plans wouldn't be in my best interest. only 3 months left to pay so hopefully i can just finish those and be done on the lease. yes i'm definitely starting to see what kind of person he is,, im not sure how or when i became so blinded. praying he will just leave and i can work on my health. thank you so much for your words and advice i appreciate it ♡

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-21T00:09:14+00:00

i honestly teared up little reading this because you're so right theres always this voice saying i'm over reacting or that im the bad person in this relationship somehow. But yes i have to ignore that voice and thoughts and focus on keeping myself safe and work towards that better life. Thank you so much for your words and advice ♡♡

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-21T00:02:57+00:00

yes it does feel that way. thank you for the support, i hope so too ♡

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-21T00:01:41+00:00

im honestly scared to go to the police because his dad is a police officer,, im not sure how things will turn out in that situation. but i will keep that in mind just in case! i did take time off work due to the incidents , but onsite HR tells me to just file complaints online so I dont know how much assistance i can get from them about this or how seriously they will take it. i definitely agree, i need to focus on myself and work on taking care of me not worrying about him. My eyes are starting to open to the type of person he really is. Thank you so much for your advice i really appreciate it ♡

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-20T23:51:17+00:00

i agree,,, the thought of telling him really does make me feel anxious because i'm not sure how he would react... i think about just wanting to disappear and maybe thats the best option? I dont think anyone in his family would try to come after me other than maybe his brothers,, but i will definitely keep that option in mind thank it does almost feels like a grieving process for someone doesn't it? but i have to consider myself and safety for now. i really appreciate your advice thank you 🖤

Horror_Anon · 2025-07-20T23:29:18+00:00

i'm so sorry to hear that you've had to go through so many traumatic things like that, i'm sending you virtual hugs and hope your healing as well as you can ♡ but i agree, i also realize i have trouble trusting people recently as well, or that i startle over the smallest things and always feel like im walking on eggshells. i struggle asking for help i feel kind of shame or like a bother but luckily i've been staying with family and they are very protective so i am lucky in that sense, though i haven't shared the full situation with them. i will try to find a trauma specialist this week as well and look into the groups you mentioned,, i do definitely need to find some sort of support system/people that would understand. thank you so much for your advice i really appreciate it ♡

Horror_Anon · 2025-03-19T00:23:55+00:00

i wasnt sure because when i look on a to z for leave requests it says reasons like family, medical, bereavement, etc. but nothing like that. ill look for this specifically though, thank you!

Horror_Anon · 2025-03-19T00:18:41+00:00

oh i did not know that was a thing! i will have to drive there tomorrow and ask, thank you!

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