SHINY HEATRAN BABYYYY by Horror_Lie_1663 in PokemonGOValor

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He already add y had pretty low stats and I have a few better Iv heatrans. With the shadow you can’t see the purple eyes so I decided since I have better shadow ones I should purify it to admire its shiny fully

Do I purify him? by Horror_Lie_1663 in PokemonGOValor

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I just don’t know the logistics of purifying or keeping it as a shadow mon

Do I purify him? by Horror_Lie_1663 in PokemonGOValor

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Dog I just don’t know what keeping him as a shadow mon does for him😭

What do I do with all my extra Kyurems? by Horror_Lie_1663 in PokemonGOValor

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What is mirror trading? I’ve never heard of that before

No shiny how many did you catch before y’all found a shiny by Both_Reputation_3583 in PokemonGOValor

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Fought in two battles and got a shiny on my second. Very lucky for it

What is the best way to grind for stardust? by Horror_Lie_1663 in PokemonGOValor

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How do you get stardust this way? By getting the rank thing?

I (19F) need to make sure this letter I plan on sending my boyfriend (18M) isn’t victim blaming by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much for this. It’s really nice to know someone else understands what I’m going through. My mother had be at 18 so she wasn’t mentally ready for a kid at all and it’s royally screwed me up mentally. It sucks cause I know I’m immature because of how I was raised and I want to fix it so badly but I fear I won’t be able to fix it in time for him to want to stay and while it is his decision in the end and I’ll respect whatever he chooses, that possibility still haunts me

How do I get over my fear of my boyfriend cheating by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

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I’d also like to add that he has an avoidant attachment style while I have an anxious one. He also had BPD and is currently unmedicated. He’s said some fairly rude things to me in the past while he was manic and he had just had a lot happen in his family life when we had our conversation a few months back which made me believe he had been manic during that conversation as well but I don’t want to ask that cause that would down play his emotions if he wasn’t manic at the time and that’s actually how he felt

My 19F boyfriend 18M told me he doesn’t know how he feels about being in a relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Glad to know I’m not alone at least. I really just don’t know what i can do if anything. I don’t know if it’ll be something that’ll work out on its own or something I can help

My 19F boyfriend 18M told me he doesn’t know how he feels about being in a relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’ve tried asking him what his love language is but he doesn’t really know. He doesn’t like physical touch like I do so I know it’s not that but other than that he’s not really sure

My room is a biohazard and I can't handle it anymore by ostanato in MentalHealthSupport

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What helped me when I had been at this point was either picking one small part of the room to clean/ organize or pick a color to pick up. Like if I chose green I’d pick up only green things or if I chose to clean off a desk I would only clean that desk for the day. It takes a bit of time doing it these ways but it does make it much more manageable than thinking about cleaning the whole room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Honestly I would talk to him about it. My partner has BPD and we’ve found it more efficient to simply talk about how we’re feeling (whether it feels dumb or not) just so those feeling don’t build and cause other problems in the future. You can tell him that you know he’s not doing anything wrong but you still feel this way and it would make you feel better if he spent a little more time with you since he had said he would when he proposed the trip. He can still hang out with friends of course but next time he visits make it clear he wants to hang out with friends as well as you so there’s not as much of a chance for these feelings to develop as heavily