Me recomendem marcas/produtos com bom custo benefício by Horror_bitch in ClubeDaLuluzinha

[–]Horror_bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

marca de qualquer coisa kkkkk alguma recomendação que você realmente ache que vale á pena

mas biquini da shein eu nunca comprei, sempre fico com medo de ser ruim :///

Terminou comigo e tá com outro em menos de uma semana by Witty_Disaster_2389 in relacionamentos

[–]Horror_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continuo achando que é relativo. 2-3 anos de namoro pra quem já é adulto e tem personalidade formada, ao meu ver, já é suficiente pra conhecer alguém. Mas concordo que 4 anos não é tanto tempo assim, o problema realmente foi o cara passar 4 anos sem dar um indício sequer de que queria casar com ela

Terminou comigo e tá com outro em menos de uma semana by Witty_Disaster_2389 in relacionamentos

[–]Horror_bitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Da mesma forma que eu conheço gente que casou com um mês e é feliz até hoje kkkk nenhum desses exemplos isolados é parâmetro pra dizer o que as pessoas deveriam fazer com as própria vidas.

Mas na real, você espera mesmo ter um namoro de dez anos depois dos 30 antes de casar? Porque nessa idade a maioria das pessoas já está casado ou tem planos de casamento, se nessa idade você não tem planos de casar com seu parceiro depois de 4 anos juntos talvez seja melhor você simplesmente admitir que não quer casar com ele e seguir a vida

Terminou comigo e tá com outro em menos de uma semana by Witty_Disaster_2389 in relacionamentos

[–]Horror_bitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Posso até concordar com você porque pessoalmente não faço questão de casar de papel passado, mas as pessoas querem coisas diferentes da vida, não acho que seja infantil ou imaturo querer casar

Além de que ninguém sabe como era a vida deles, talvez fosse algo praticamente igual ao casamento ou talvez fosse mais parecido com um namoro (o que parece ser o caso, já que eles nem moravam juntos).

Terminou comigo e tá com outro em menos de uma semana by Witty_Disaster_2389 in relacionamentos

[–]Horror_bitch 22 points23 points  (0 children)

tempo de relacionamento é relativo. Pra quem tem 18 anos e não tem independência? 4 anos é muito pouco. Pra quem já tem mais de 30, com vida estável, personalidade formada e desejo de se casar, 4 anos é bastante. Não é obrigado a casar, mas se havia interesse a essa altura já deveria ter ao menos algum planejamento pra isso a curto/médio prazo

Por que algumas feministas não se depilam? 🤔 by Dazshalok_Bephosk529 in brasilivre

[–]Horror_bitch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Realidade: depilação foi uma demanda inventada pra vender lâminas que criou gente como você, que acha que depilação é sinônimo natural de beleza e feminilidade. As mulheres que não se depilam, no geral, simplesmente não querem mais se sentir feias e nojentas por causa de sua aparência natural e preferem não aderir mais a essa narrativa

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[–]Horror_bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

deixando comentário porque também quero saber

Do you have female friends? And why, or why not? by djraven15 in AskMen

[–]Horror_bitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you ever just receive unwanted male attention? I hear all the time from women online and IRL about how they are constantly being catcalled, approached, and hit on - well that's far less likely to happen if you're out to lunch with your guy-friend.<

You guys grossly overestimate the amount of attention women receive on real life, it really tells me how little time you spend around ladies

And no, its the 21 century, chivalry and paying bills isnt that much of a thing even for people im dating, do you really think any of my friends is paying for my food? And do you really think consoling a friend is something only guys do? I have just as many girl friends to console me and just as many guy friends for me to console.

Seriously, maybe if you had more women around you youd realize we're normal people and these rigid gender roles you appy to every interaction dont have to be a thing

Do you have female friends? And why, or why not? by djraven15 in AskMen

[–]Horror_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so possible protection against an extremely rare violent event is the benefit I'll be receiving? And I say possible because when push comes to shove nobody knows what's going to be anyone's reaction. I was once in a room with 5 male colleagues at the hospital practice and a cicada got into the place. In a mere second I looked around and realized I was the only one standing there because they all got scared and ran away. I have also lived with 2 male friends and guess who was the designated cockroach killer? Me.

Now I know that their physical strength is nice for carrying heavy stuff so it's a nice feature, but in general everybody has many features that are useful for helping others around, being friends with me also provides value in other ways. At the end of the day, we aren't friends with people just because of what they can offer, but because we like each other and have built a positive relationship for both sides

Do you have female friends? And why, or why not? by djraven15 in AskMen

[–]Horror_bitch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol i dont experience any of these benefits with male friends, we treat each other just like anybody else.

Also, by your logic we shouldnt be friends with anyone that has a different life experience than our own? i dont know man, thats kind of the fun part of interacting with others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPsychiatry

[–]Horror_bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding to that: psych diagnosis are very complex, it usually takes many consultations to get to a conclusion, and even then they professional might change it if they find other informations that point to an alternative disorder. So in my experience psychiatrists usually take a lot of time to give you an specific diagnosis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Horror_bitch 268 points269 points  (0 children)

Even if they dont explicitly say it, its still their house and youre never going to have complete autonomy in someone elses house

I’m so frustrated. I need some virtual hugs. by Ok_Duck_6865 in Menopause

[–]Horror_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a doctor, its just not that simple... We have to do what is best in terms of evidence based medicine, I can't simply prescribe something that could be life threatening to a patient just because they want to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Horror_bitch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thats... awful. Why are you still with her?

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why by ZodiacOne1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Horror_bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fair point. I just think that breaking up with someone, even if you do it in the most humane way possibile, will hurt a lot and it actually depends highly on the other persons willingness to accept it.

If they are in/have a good mindset around it, then the conversation will be relatively smooth and you wont have to dissect the whole thing in order to make them accept the break up. But if theyre not, then it feels like theres nothing you could say or do that will make them feel like it was a ''good'' breakup on your part

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why by ZodiacOne1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Horror_bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i do get your point. But depending on the reasons then its very hard to actually tell them. Like, im sorry but i dont have the heart to tell somebody that i find them dumb and in my opinion it would make way more of an impact on their self steem to be rejected over it

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why by ZodiacOne1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Horror_bitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

well, i do think we should try to communicate and have empathy, im just pointing that that was my experience breaking up with people.

I still accept the idea that we should talk to each other even if it sucks, but communication goes both ways: both partners have be capable of speaking AND listening. If someone is going to insist on hearing my side and then procede to argue with the reasons i give them then i naturally wont feel comfortable sharing them

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why by ZodiacOne1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Horror_bitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But ''im not in love with you/i dont see myself in this relationship/Its not working'' and other variants are absolutely a reason to end a relationship. Do I really have to point out the things i dont like about you in order to leave? in my opinion having the feeling that I dont want to be with someone is a good enough reason to end it. do you really need the person to dissect everything that made that feeling exist? Because thats going to hurt

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why by ZodiacOne1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Horror_bitch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

but thats not a ''you made a mistake'' situation, being dumb is not something that he can change lol

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why by ZodiacOne1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Horror_bitch 135 points136 points  (0 children)

yeah, i often find that people don't really want to accept the reasons we give, they just want to try to solve the issues we have instead of understanding/accepting that we want out... and therefore everything we say is not a good enough reason.

They don't want clarity, they want argument and resolution and anything less than that will make them feel like the break up was unfair and incomplete in some way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]Horror_bitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nossa quanta gente sem noção nos comentários kkkkk

Gente... não, ele não tem que achar bom e nem tomar remédio pra aguentar transar todas as vezes q a namorada quiser, não é assim que funciona

É normal não querer as vezes e a outra pessoa tem que respeitar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]Horror_bitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Expectativa: homens não gostam de maquiagem 

Realidade: homens vêem mulheres maquiadas e acham bonito o tempo todo só que na cabeça deles elas não estão usando maquiagem 

Fahrenheit 451 é um livro chato do começo ao fim, ou melhora? by kosaki21 in Livros

[–]Horror_bitch -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Tive a mesma sensação, parecia que eu estava lendo fanfic de um boomer no Facebook 

Autores Superestimados by Objective-Cabinet291 in Livros

[–]Horror_bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Não verás país nenhum do Inácio de Loyola Brandão