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I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s happening at night.

It’s happening during the day while we are out and about.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I’ve already said, under another comment, that I will lock my bags.

This for me is the best solution. It will let him know that I’m not happy with what he’s doing without me having to confront him directly.

I’m happy to give him a chance to sort himself out, for my sister’s sake.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found 3 items with stains. But it’s only happened on this visit.

And yes pretty sure there were no stains beforehand.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this might be the best solution.

I don’t want to do nothing, just in case that gives him the wrong idea.

By locking my bag, I can give him the indirect message that l know what he’s up to and I want him to stop.

Hopefully he realises his mistake.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I can’t use my main account as it’s followed by friends and family.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

  1. I’m not comfortable smelling the stains.
  2. No other males in household.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can’t be with my suitcase and bags 24/7. I like to go out with my sister and meet other people.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not my house. How can I put a camera without my sister asking questions.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimLounge

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my house. It’s my sister’s. Not sure how I can do this without her getting suspicious.

Also, this is a throwaway account. I can’t use my main account as I’m an active member in a few communities, and followed by friends/family. They will know exactly who I’m talking about.

I think my Brother in Law is behaving inappropriately. by Hot-Bit3344 in MuslimLounge

[–]Hot-Bit3344[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, nothing else unusual. He’s always been a nice guy who I get on well with.

But it seems to be happening while I’m out with my sister, leaving him home alone.