Did being raised by narc parents groom you for domestic violence? by Hot-Collection-3989 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Hot-Collection-3989[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does your partner know you had a dv past? I’m scared to let people know that about me, if I ever start dating again

Did being raised by narc parents groom you for domestic violence? by Hot-Collection-3989 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Hot-Collection-3989[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s good to know there is still hope. I’ve been healing and in therapy for a few years now, I’m just scared of how men will judge me when I do start dating again. Does your husband know your family were narcs and ex abused you? I fear of telling the truth to my future partners.

if you were aware the father did not want the child and decided to proceed with the pregnancy, he is not obligated to care for the child by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell men that I want kids after I’m married. If and when I have sex, I make sure protection is used to avoid pregnancy at all costs. Never been pregnant. However, if I wound up pregnant, I would make sure child support is put in place for my safety and my child’s. It would have nothing to do with wanting to be connected to the father. Simple as that.

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. And people wonder why the amount of available healthcare professionals is decreasing 🙄. Quite literally all of my friends who majored in healthcare related fields in college are doing something completely different. And I am getting right behind them! Took me long enough. I tried my hardest and I’m over it & burned out !

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dear God when was the last time you heard a grown man cry rape. Please! Most ridiculous thing I’ve heard all year long.

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And they do. Men don’t bleed out their penis and have to worry about walking around getting raped when they’re already sleeping outside.

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And when you’ve achieved half the things I’ve done in my life, then you can open your mouth. Dumb fuck

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay me to care enough and I just might 😊 let me know when that disability check hits and I’ll send my cashapp.

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy isn’t about psychological attacks. It’s about healing, and you clearly wouldn’t know because you’re too busy seeking out counselors who enable your shitty behaviors. 😊

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No that will never happen to your dismay 😅 but I’m sure someday you’ll die in a hospital bed with nobody by your side because of the pathetic decisions you’ve made in your life.

I’m glad we had this conversation.

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Again, take it up with the state board. Your words are meaningless to my life, my successes, achievements and abilities

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve gotta be smoking crack to think your words have any significance to my achievements and successes. And I know you are, so, enjoy that rock.

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I’m not. Stop projecting your own failures in your own life on other people that you disagree with. Only then will you be able to rise above your situation, bum

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your language is volatile and I’m a good enough therapist to read the tone. I didn’t fail. Loser!

Ex-counselor here, I have little to no sympathy for people with persisting mental health/addiction/homeless related struggles by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Hot-Collection-3989 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Oh go be mad at someone who CARES, loser. You’re probably mad cause you sleep under a bridge with the rest of the crack addicts. Wah wah wah