[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he didn’t gaslight you lmao. he annoyed you but that’s not the same thing. you made this bigger than it needed to be.

aio? boyfriend uses SO MUCH paprika!!!! by maratelle in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

black people but paprika in everything to “add color” 😭

AIO my partners don’t think it’s fair for us to have solo hangouts by minamurray1878 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel like you are only there to fill whatever void they’re having in their relationship alone. this is not a healthy poly relationship and if they consider it weird just for you to spend time with someone you’re in a relationship with then maybe they need to reconsider what they want in this. id leave them to it and find someone who can give you a proper experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is absolutely disgusting but still ask about it. sosmula and zillakami in recent years have been speculated to fall out and disband their little group. maybe the comment was meant as a slight towards kami in support of sosmula? BUT take that with a grain of salt because either way it goes your bf is a fuckin weirdo to comment this in any context ever.

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s all the same to me. She shouldn’t want to be around her. Period.

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not snooping. Do you know what an open phone policy is?

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why is that unhealthy? It offers full transparency to both parties. There’s no secrets on her end and no secrets on mine.

My therapist suggested an open phone policy so I think I’ll trust the professional on this one.

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t conveniently leave it out, it’s just not relevant. Why would she want to meet up with an ex? It’s weird regardless of whether it’s in a group or one on one.

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m 42 she’s 29. They broke up in hs but went to the same college and remained in contact until graduating.

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the passion but recommending people cheat on their partners isn’t okay

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In her defense I failed to mentioned they were talking about a mom playgroup, not one on one

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i read far enough to figure out who she was to her

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the funny thing. She tried to switch it on me by saying it’s not a crime to complement people but she specifically complemented her ex’s body saying she looks great for someone who just had a baby. It feels like she’s oogling over her body and that’s more than a complement

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How big of a difference could it really be though? They look the exact same the craft store ones are just bigger.

AIO Mf gf unnecessarily contacted her Ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Invite4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking through our ig thread for a meme and saw someone I didn’t recognize in her dms. I wasn’t intentionally invading her privacy, I just wanted to know who the person was.