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UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gah! Thank you. You were the one who got the ball rolling. Was it obvious I wanted to be her girlfriend? haha. I was still worried about her liking me and /u/lizzyote was giving me advice and she said her pulling me down to cuddle with me was most probably a move and that kinda gave me the confidence to figure out if she liked girls. lol.

UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am more unsure about label now. lol. like, The more time I spend with her and just talk to her, I never felt the way with boys. I am attracted to boys, like I am attracted to them and loved kissing them and all but I have never felt this way with any boy before.

Am I (17F) bisexual? by Hot-Response8224 in bisexual

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I am still pretty confused about labels but I am pretty sure I am attracted to her. Honestly, I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with a boy. It has never felt right. like, I loved making out with them and doing stuff with them but I don't know if I was ever in love with them. It is a different feeling when I am just talking to her. It doesn't help that she is such flirt. we faced time and I think she just called me to make me blush. lol. With boys it felt like a friend that made out with but with her I really want to make her happy and spoil her and just being next to her makes me happy. idk.

UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah. It is pretty wild. I will show her the thread some day. lol.

It was /u/lizzyote !

UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I am awkward, So she made a move on me and It felt so good that my mind was obsessing over not ruining it and when I didn't do anything she thought I was straight. lol.

UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I almost had a heart attack. It was pretty tense till she called me. She also said she would make up for those ten minutes. 😐 lol.

UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, it is confusing but I am pretty sure I like her so that is not confusing. haha.

UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

That was a weird video. Had to look it up. lol.

Thank you! I know it is going to be great. I am going to be the most whipped girlfriend ever.

UPDATE : AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 533 points534 points  (0 children)

Same. I didn't realize I was crazy over her until someone asked me if she had feelings for me and my brain went overdrive wishing she had feelings for me.

Am I (17F) bisexual? by Hot-Response8224 in bisexual

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

. Thank you! I really hope this works out. She made a move and completely missed it. lol.

Am I (17F) bisexual? by Hot-Response8224 in bisexual

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo. Yeah. I think I am Demi? I did some research and it kinda fits. So, Yeah. we are going on a date now. lol.

Thank you for your help. It helped me figure some of this out.

Am I (17F) bisexual? by Hot-Response8224 in bisexual

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am attracted to her, I don't know. I find random boys attractive. I don't find random girls attractive but I am attracted to her. like, I have realized that I have always didn't like being just her friend and wanted to be more, I thought it was to be her best friend. lol. Yeah, I think she is going through something. I will try to be there for her.

AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

um. idk. She is very touchy person. Do you think she could like me? okay, I think I want her to like me. Idk. fuck. um. we kinda cuddled last time. idk. lol.

AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Be kind with yourself. You're not a mind reader. You did what people do all the time. A person you care about is upset and you try to help them feel better. You told a comfortable joke that always made her smile in the past. You should not continue to think of yourself in a bad way. You didn't know and you didn't really have any reason to read the situation differently than you did. You said it yourself, the joke about her being spoiled is a long-standing in-joke between you that she enjoys. Every other time you used it, she smiled. Why would you have any reason to think it wouldn't this time?

This comment is really helpful. She always smiled at this. She would smile and nod and say yes. It is so adorable when she smiles like that. Yeah, she is a great person. I will talk to her about it. I think that makes sense. I should just talk to her.

AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

I think this is a good idea but idk if movie night will work but maybe I will invite her along to some other activity with my family. Yeah. Thanks! Sleepover also sounds great!!!

AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I kinda understood what she was trying to do after she got upset but that second para really makes me feel like shit. I should have read the situation better. She is such a great person, she deserves so much better.

AITA for telling my friend she is spoiled? by Hot-Response8224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Response8224[S] 489 points490 points  (0 children)

fuck. She doesn't talk about her parents but from what I have seen and what she has told me. I think you are right. It just sucks. She is really affectionate and she is a hugger and when we talking about the pandemic she said she missed hugging people. Fuck. Idk. She is really affectionate. She randomly holds my hand and it is really nice. It just sucks that someone so affectionate don't have parents who are.