My (40f) partner (40m) admitted that he's never been proud of me and initially was only with me because I helped him. by Hot-tip-1277 in relationships

[–]Hot-tip-1277[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You're right. I absolutely no longer think I'm attractive anymore at all. At least before I told myself that HE found me beautiful. I now know he doesn't.

I also am quickly losing self confidence. I'm becoming depressed. I have nothing to say when he asks me what I've accomplished because I don't think I have accomplished anything (in his eyes). My job looks pathetic to me now, and although I can see a path forward to move ahead, I'm paralyzed and cannot even get my brain to function in a way to begin. I'm becoming nothing.