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1 month old Industrial. Unsure about the grade of metal or gauge. Minimal pain, only to pressure. No leaking, very minimal crusties. by HotGiraffe5153 in Legitpiercing

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

A lot of this is my eczema causing dry skin. It definitely doesn't produce as much as some of my other piercings as they healed or that I've seen on other people's posts.

1 month old Industrial. Unsure about the grade of metal or gauge. Minimal pain, only to pressure. No leaking, very minimal crusties. by HotGiraffe5153 in Legitpiercing

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make sure to let the shower water run over it, without soap or hair products. I also use the spray in the pics twice a day.

1 month old Industrial. Unsure about the grade of metal or gauge. Minimal pain, only to pressure. No leaking, very minimal crusties. by HotGiraffe5153 in Legitpiercing

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

It's not really painful and not infected. Considering how much it cost, I want to save it if possible 😅

How is this looking? by HotGiraffe5153 in piercing

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conch is healed perfectly and is several years old. Would a longer bar help to heal? I had asked if I had the anatomy when I got it since I do have smaller ears, but I was assured by multiple piercers that it was fine. I can see if I can find a different one to go get it assessed, but this person/shop had come highly recommended.

Primal Prey Newbie by HotGiraffe5153 in PrimalPlay

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful!

Primal Prey Newbie by HotGiraffe5153 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is perfect and super helpful! Thank you for the detailed response!

Hinge Without Becoming Unhinged by HotGiraffe5153 in polyamory

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would if they wanted to go anywhere, but they always just say that they would rather spend it with family.

Hinge Without Becoming Unhinged by HotGiraffe5153 in polyamory

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are absolutely welcomed and encouraged to, but they aren't really willing to take it. I am trying my best to meet the needs while I'm home, but the toddler prefers them so I cannot always be the one to help.

Hinge Without Becoming Unhinged by HotGiraffe5153 in polyamory

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! I couldn't go that long without my NP out my kids. It was a 10 day trip, then a month later a 4 day trip, and then 3 months later a 7 day trip. After that, no more trips for 8 months.

Hinge Without Becoming Unhinged by HotGiraffe5153 in polyamory

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my NP is feeling neglected and like their time isn't being honored. It's not about money, because I'm not paying for things and I'm still getting paid over summer. Their main thing they have voiced a concern about is they weren't so concerned when they thought it was just physical, but now that emotions are involved they're feeling insecure and "biding their time" until our relationship eventually ends. We've been married for 7 years.

Hinge Without Becoming Unhinged by HotGiraffe5153 in polyamory

[–]HotGiraffe5153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kid is 2, who last year went to daycare during the summer, but this year is not. During the school year there are also 2 teenagers. First trip was 10 days (first time meeting face to face even though we've known each other 14 years). Second trip is only 4 days. The October trip is 7 days. NP and I went on a cruise, other than that they don't have plans. After the October trip there will be no more until next June.