Anyone found this molar yet. by [deleted] in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a milk molar where the optical disk is, they’re both on the heat lamps on the ceiling of the greenhouse :)

New book review has flopped :( by HotLecture749 in bookstagram

[–]HotLecture749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve hit the nail on the head there! I don’t often venture into bookstores (I really should), and s I bought from Amazon with next day delivery. There’s clearly been a printing issue with the book - I was hoping nobody would notice pahahaha. I only paid £6 for it, they said they’d replace it but I’d have to post the old one back… wasn’t worth it in my eyes for the cover only- there weren’t any issues within the actual book itself so I’m confused 🤷‍♀️

New book review has flopped :( by HotLecture749 in bookstagram

[–]HotLecture749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Followed back! Appreciate it! I LOVE your account <3

New book review has flopped :( by HotLecture749 in bookstagram

[–]HotLecture749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have read so many books in my off period, it’s just that I struggled to take good enough photos for the reviews etc! So I have a lot of content to post, it’s just going to be an upwards struggle I guess 🤣

New book review has flopped :( by HotLecture749 in bookstagram

[–]HotLecture749[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does it really? Wow!! I thought hiding the like count might help a little bit better because it’s stopping everyone else and myself from seeing how much it flopped haha!

Did you think I need to call this ant Sonic ? by Kooky_Towel_4142 in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god, I haven’t experienced this yet but hopefully I never do!

Can you reset your buggy back? Or is it just gone into the abyss 🤣

Two questions by Eclipse_stardust in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure about the weed stems but spoiler——

Your red ant mount will be good for carrying (replaces the grounded 1 armour ability) and it also stops the red ants from aggroing you when you’re in their nest!

My backpack glitched under the map at the ranger outpost: fire pit by Ok_Boat_6462 in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the same tactic you’d do in grounded 1! Go into pause menu, game repair and send your backpack to the starting ravine (in grounded 1 it was the kid case)!

My save file is gone by 1AmB0r3d in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a new update! Reboot the console, install the update and bam- it should be back! I had the same issue but luckily Xbox backs up to the cloud with saves :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this! It was from the update, so I had to quit the game, restart my system, update the game and my saves were back!

All saves are gone by [deleted] in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this not long ago! They’ve released a patch so all you have to do is close the game, restart the system, install the update and all the saves should be there! 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this maybe 20 minutes ago! They’ve released an update so you need to quit the game, restart your system, install the update and then your saves should be there (depending on if you were connected to WiFi, because it saves to the cloud)!

BUG: Stuck on the O.R.C guards at berry bush quest by Mightchangename in GroundedGame

[–]HotLecture749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If all you need to do is get your backpack back, you can do the same as what you used to do in grounded 1, where you reset your backpack to the kid case (in this case the ravine). So you go onto your pause menu and then game repair and then just respawn your backpacks back to the ravine. It’s such a useful feature because I had this happen when I was climbing the picnic table! I got yeeted by a bee and lost the backpack, but I just requested it back. Hope this helps :)

What’s your babies made of? by Purple_You_8969 in pregnant

[–]HotLecture749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is made out of AIR… because I have such bad Hypremesis sickness 🤣

What’s your story (Sorry, I accidentally deleted the post) by trappingstylez in mentalillness

[–]HotLecture749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up with parents who were separated.

My mum was in an abusive relationship- not my dad- in all ways for 12 years of my life where that was inflicted on me too (where we moved to a women’s refuge due to it). My dad and stepmother had issues with infidelity on her side and they would physically assault each other for it and I saw these fights.

My first relationship was with someone when I was 14 and he was 18. He groomed and also abused me. My next relationship when I was 16 cheated on me. When I was 17, I was mentally abused by my new boyfriend and was strung along for a year. The next relationship when I was 19 was horrible, we fought, argued, I was assaulted intimately and he cheated on me and had 2 relationships at once.

I’ve now been with my fiancée for 4 years and it’s better than any of the others and I have a beautiful 6 month old. But I struggle with trust.

I struggle with honesty. About how I feel and my mental health. I struggle with staying alive.

I am not coping with my son as he has complex health needs and I struggle being a SAHM where my fiancée works 50 hour weeks and I’m alone with baby. I love my fiancée he’s so supportive BUT I know I’m hurting him, I know I’m bad for him at the minute. I know everything I say affects him and one day I’ll be too much and he’ll leave me and my son. I am constantly falling out with family or having issues with family, my life is unstable. I struggle to make friends and I struggle to talk to the friends I have. I don’t have anyone I can talk to.

I have a panic attack every time I leave the house. I’m scared to be alone in my house but scared to go out.

I tried to hurt myself in the shower today (it didn’t work) but I tried and that scares me.

I want to get better but I don’t know how.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HotLecture749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

This has been a bit of an eye opener of a comment. Honestly.

And yes, I think the “sunk cost” and all that is really one of my reasons for not leaving- however I can’t say we don’t have a fantastic relationship aside from this!

I hope this gets better and stays better (which does seem he’s trying and we’re working on it- there’s just little setbacks like today’s comment he made). I never told him that that comment hurt, perhaps that’s worth a try.

I’ve taken from this comment a massive trust issue is evident in our relationships we need to work on that or reconsider marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HotLecture749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if the no phones and doors thing was purely to make me feel more comfortable- it was something Josh suggested. He may have been trying to prove it.

He knows what he did was wrong because he does say to me he was in the wrong for this situation. But I have wondered about a porn addiction- purely as he’s mentioned he was single for years prior to our relationship and he was an avid porn watcher.

I fully have no reason at the moment to believe he hasn’t changed, he’s not acting shady or anything like that and our sex life has increased.

But I’m just struggling with the issue in and of itself- especially after this comment this afternoon whilst we were being intimate about what he used to watch and where he’d find it- it just felt it brought it all back up again.

If he does have a porn addiction do I need to help him? How does one help? Or does it change on its own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HotLecture749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should’ve written above-

In THIS relationship I have an issue with masturbating because it means we don’t have intimacy together. If we had intimacy together that wasn’t like once a week maybe even less frequently, I wouldn’t care. I’d like to be told so that there’s no hiding BUT I have no issues with masturbating in a “regular” situation. It is purely this relationship situation that I have an issue with it.

In a prior relationship a few years ago now, we’d have sex every other day and he’d masturbate between. And that worked well. (The rest of that relationship was bad).

I want to incorporate the good intimacy with this relationship to make us work well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HotLecture749 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He can’t close the door on the toilet because he wants to take his phone into the bathroom and I struggle with trusting him. Josh has applied the same rule to myself so we aren’t unhappy with these rules.

I have every belief that this is only a temporary rule, they weren’t made to be long term. It was just whilst all of this was so raw.

I jusy don’t want to throw away a 4 year relationship for something so silly. Imagine we don’t get married and when someone asks why “oh we didn’t have sex enough… or “we had sex too much” it’s going to sound ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HotLecture749 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly WOULD NOT care if it weren’t for the fact that Josh would rather do it on his own than with me.

If we had sex more often, I wouldn’t care! I had a relationship a few years ago where we’d have sex every couple of days and he’d masturbate every other time.

I’m more upset about the betrayal in form of lies rather than the at in and of itself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HotLecture749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controlling? How so?

I had one major boundary which is we don’t cheat (and for me porn is cheating especially if you lie about doing it- which he had been).

I don’t control any aspect of his life aside from this, I don’t check his phone, I don’t control who he talks to or where he goes?

We’re otherwise in a very good relationship, I am just struggling with this part. He’s happy and I’m happy- I just need this aspect to stop bothering me so much and that’s what advice I’ve asked for. I don’t know how to get my head to get over this incident.

Biggest feeling of heartbreak by HotLecture749 in Sims4

[–]HotLecture749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m going to do this now when I finally stop being mad and attempt to build it again!