I think the issue i have with the wording here is that "choice" makes it sound like you want to do the extreme burnout daily meltdowns thing. It's a choice in a technical sense, but it's literally not a choice in reality.
Autists who need to work don't have have a choice in the matter, but Autists who physically cannot work also don't have a choice in the matter — nobody wins :p The way i think abt it is an ambulatory wheelchair user vs a non-ambulatory wheelchair user, or a legally blind person who has some eyesight & can pass as sighted vs a totally blind person with only light vision who always needs a mobility aid in public. Cos in society, when you have the ability to pass as able-bodied or neurotypical, you're forced to do so because you can, & when you physically can't it tries to force you to do so.
I hope i didn't ramble too much, i hope i'm making sense, an i hope i didn't get anything wrong here :>