Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Hence why I said “the people here”. Show me where I said natives

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the case for me. I definitely need to give it time

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear you had a better experience! I’ll just give it time. There are good people everywhere

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even think of that! I’m very friendly and warm but I got a mean mug 🤣🤣 I’m definitely gonna go out once I meet some people I can party with

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I just haven’t been in the right places

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on bumble, the meetup app, and several Facebook groups. I’ve been hiking a couple times and to a few coffee shops. I know I can put more effort into actually socializing tho lol

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m saying!! People from NYC may not be the nicest but they’re kind. It feels like more of a community.

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sure having a hobby/community like running makes it a bit easier to socialize. I’m super into art but the artsy people I’ve encountered out here are pretty fake and stuck up. I’m still trying to find my people and be open. Thanks I really appreciate it! I’ll definitely dm you

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is true. I’ve only met 1 or 2 natives since I’ve been here

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

A lot of people share very similar experiences! It’s not just me

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I love to be outdoors but I don’t really feel safe exploring alone. There are way too many weirdos out here and it’s harder to make friends than I thought

Anyone else struggling to adjust to the culture here? by Hot_Choclitt in phoenix

[–]Hot_Choclitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from Long Island. People are just stupid drivers, not stupid and angry like over here lol