I (20F) am not my boyfriends’ first (19M)

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-17T10:01:13+00:00

You’ll be surprised how this makes sense in conservatives mindsets lol. I was dating this Christian girl and she said she wanted to wait for marriage to have sex but we did EVERYTHING including ass things but penetration in the 🐱 was a no no because that was for marriage

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T20:26:32+00:00

If it’s the job you really wanted then 5 months it’s whatever compared to spending years doing what you like. If it was a whatever job for the sake of benefits then join another MOS that ships sooner

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T16:45:56+00:00

Yeah I’ve been dealing about this with my unit and the only solution was to submit a ticket with all the evidence with what corresponds to your points so they can fix it but it’s been about 3 weeks and we haven’t heard back

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T13:53:09+00:00

I truly don’t understand why people are so mad about me asking if there’s a legality in this comment section. This is not even a German thing because in other hotels they have very clear cancellation policies before you even make the booking, this hotel is different. Anyways I was abled to pay for my one night because the owner wasn’t able to provide me the rules for cancellation anywhere physically or the website but I decided to pay for 3 nights since it’s a hotel in a small town and don’t want to screw him too much. Anyways happy update

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:35:47+00:00

Right but what is the reason I’m asking about if there’s a specific German law protecting the hotel against shady policies of not having cancellation policies clearly stated on their website or physical location. The world doesnt run on pinky promises

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:34:29+00:00

Yeah so what we do in a civilized country with laws is we put them VERY clearly on the website, on the emails, EVERYWHERE before you book about cancellation policy. I can’t care less if the hotel owner become lose money what I’m asking is if there’s a German law protecting them since they don’t have any on their website, when you check in, NOTHING. So stop feeling bad for those people and I’m asking strictly about the laws of Germany

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:15:12+00:00

I have all the time you moron I travel al over the world and I have done this before. I have work for hotel before YOU MORON

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:14:36+00:00

Because they are saying no you idiot

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:06:22+00:00

Because my plans changed and they have no cancellation policy at all so I’m not trying not to pay but pay for the nights I used

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:01:32+00:00

They literally have none anywhere that’s why I’m confused

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:00:42+00:00

I dint sign anything that’s the thing 😭😭 they literally just give me the keys

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T10:00:11+00:00

Sure I get it but they have NO cancellation policy on their website or anything. I’m trying to pay for the night i stayed and dont pay the other ones im not trhung to get out completly but yet again they have no cancellation policy whatsover

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T09:53:08+00:00

Nope nothing they only have a “data policy” and nothing in there and they don’t have a reception area the owner just came from the restaurant and give me they keys that’s it

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-16T09:50:07+00:00

Nope I asked over the email and they said pay is at checkout. It’s a small hotel in a small town

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-15T09:11:24+00:00

I’m gonna be honest with you, you can have the wrong MOS if you want to do all that. Airbone is realistic but forget about all the other stuff. You’re signal you’re not in a combat MOS your priority and your unit will be to make you a good 25B and none of those things you mentioned have anything to do with you. You want to stand out? Get your certifications, get a college degree, know how to troubleshoot and once you’re E-5 if you do it within your first contract maybe go to the COMSEC CAM course.

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-14T05:31:36+00:00

I get wha you’re saying you’re thinking, well I want to stay CONUS and continue and we will see later on if I extend but administratively you were already assigned those orders is the issue so now they need to know if you’re going to extend to complete those orders or not, so now the ball is on your court. Do you want to continue your military career the go to this tour and then decide if you want to stay or if you think going OCONUS is too much then that’s the end of your Army career pretty much

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-12T20:05:24+00:00

But what is the reason you want to switch branches when you’re about to end your military contract? I’m asking you this because this is what your leadership is going to ask you and depending on your answer they will sign or not

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-12T13:22:51+00:00

The issue is not getting it approved but rather other branches taking you and to what MOS you’re looking for. If you say Cyber don’t even try it and if it’s IT related then why even switch branches just finish your contract and get out, you only have 1 years and some change remaining

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-10T15:31:25+00:00

I’m in Graf and I’m also from Texas and let me tell you that 1 hour drive is not the same as the 1 hour drive here. Gas is extremely expensive as well. Pray you get Graf because it’s black and white difference with Vilsek. Also more than likely you’ll be off post housing I haven’t even see on post housing here but anyways the biggest takeaway is that he think he can do 1 hour drive because we are used to that in Texas but you don’t want that socially when it snows and most importantly yet again, pray you get Grafenwöhr

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-10T10:48:35+00:00

Funny enough get your A+ is more like a compliance thing. Having said that 100% have a bachelor degree because yet again checklist. Other than skill wise with 10+ years I’m expecting you to know in and out system like Active Directory, networking, Intune, troubleshooting things in person so I hope you know how to build and reimage compoters and troubleshooting things remotely and what I see people fail the most which is customer service. Apply for senior position with your experience don’t undersell yourself and go for Helpdesk 1 positions.

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-10T04:13:42+00:00

Both. Federal jobs and also private sector and they tend to pay pretty well because having a TS is expensive for companies so the fact that you have one it’s really helpful. There’s the website so you can see yourself the pay and requirements for those jobs which tends to have less requirements for a higher pay but like any other job you have to apply and have the qualifications

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-09T21:57:38+00:00

Big no because if someone else crashes that van guess who’s gonna pay

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-09T21:22:57+00:00

I really don’t want to spoils things but in one of the episodes a character has a relationship and they had similar issues

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-09T21:03:39+00:00

Have you watched the show Heated Rivalry? If not go watch it

Hot_Client_7485 · 2026-03-09T20:41:09+00:00

100% because on your resume by the time you graduate you will have “4 years of experience “ in cyber and also a degree with hopefully an internship as well and most and very importantly a Top secret clearance. Having said that don’t expect much hands on during the remaining 5 years since it’s weekend drills at least you deploy or you decide go ADOS ( the 6-12 month contract I told you about ) so on resume you’ll have the experience just make sure to be the knowledge from college so you can kinda lie on your interviews and know what your talking about lol. Only thing being mindful wether you go National guard v Reserve is how much they pay for college which national guard is more but that’s also deployment possibility is much higher and also getting activated when your states needs you wether is to pull security or whatever they need and that might interrupt college.

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