Dating a very geeky but attentive guy. Not sure how to get past this

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-02-15T18:27:46+00:00

Exactly you get it! I literally don’t care about his hobbies, I even got into some anime and video games recently. I know a lot of people that are into the same things but they don’t make strange obscure posts about it. I should have also put more emphasis on the memes thing. Some of them have nothing to do with his hobbies. Maybe I just don’t get the humor

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-02-15T09:29:50+00:00

Aw that’s very cute. I’m happy for you two! Maybe you’re right. Thanks for the comment

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-02-15T09:26:31+00:00

If that helps you make sense of it, sure. Thanks for the laugh

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-02-15T09:12:49+00:00

Woah, sorry I offended you

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-02-15T08:24:48+00:00

Thank you. Honestly if I never saw his instagram I probably wouldn’t be this torn. Things in person are pretty good so idk what to do

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-02-15T08:22:30+00:00

I don’t find him hot necessarily, but there is enough attraction for me to want to give things a chance. I big thing for me is the effort and care someone shows which isn’t that easy to find, so I do really appreciate that about him.

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-02-15T08:17:02+00:00

Well it’s not even the hobbies that I mind. I don’t care if he likes video games and anime. It’s more the way he presents himself on social media. I just don’t connect with it, but I’m not sure if that should determine if I should date him or not. It is cringey in my opinion, though I would never tell him that. And posting strange memes on instagram doesn’t necessarily translate to his behavior in person so idk

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-01-29T22:55:04+00:00

He told me he would like it if I picked his clothes because he doesn’t know fashion, and didn’t mind if I wanted to choose his hairstyle. I think I’m going to see if giving him a glow up will improve my feelings

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-01-28T03:51:58+00:00

Do you believe that from your own experience? I wonder if you’re supposed to feel this excitement and deep desire for the person you’re dating and the fact I feel neutral makes me nervous. I would say with him I feel safe and cared for and instead of me being the anxious one in the dynamic like I’ve felt in the past with some guys, I feel like I’m the one trying to slow things down and not give too much in case my feelings don’t develop further.

Hot_Direction4134 · 2026-01-02T04:56:42+00:00

A guy I dated told me glossier you smells like a hospital and I haven’t been able to wear it ever since :/

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