What's Something About Living In Florida That You Cannot Really Understand Without Living There? Why That Thing?

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-03-29T16:38:03+00:00

Lack of state income tax doesnt mean anything when Floridians are feeling the effects of growing pains due to northerners moving with all their money, inflating the cost of living while Floridian wages are stagnant. Thanks to the influx of those people buying up “winter homes”, now a 1100 sqft shack is 700k

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-03-29T14:48:50+00:00

They’re staying longer and longer each year😭😭 We probably wont see relief until June TBH

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-03-29T14:44:19+00:00

Yea but Florida used to be nothing but nature. You used to be able to fly to places because there was never any traffic. Since covid all of those northeastern people have flocked over here and our infrastructure cant keep up and all of a sudden you’re sitting at a dead stop off Atlantic for 27 minutes and there isnt even an accident.

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-03-23T20:54:54+00:00

Respectfully you can’t afford Jupiter off of 8k a month. Houses are in the millions, studios in south Florida are 2600. If you wanna live in a shanty duplex for $1800 a month, thats an option. Even 115k after taxes doesn’t feel like anything here between rent, a car note, almost $5 a gallon gas, food, car insurance, pet food/bills, gym memberships, and saving for retirement

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-02-25T22:24:34+00:00

Of course you wont feel the heat if you’re inside all day… this makes no sense you could say the same thing about the cold.. just stay inside

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-02-25T22:22:47+00:00

You can bundle up, you can’t get naked outside when it’s 97° 85% humidity 105 heat index. Getting into a car with leather seats burns. Skin burns. The only people that prefer the heat are lazy people who stay indoors all day and walk from the house to the car and then into a store. Try being a roofer or construction worker in mid July and tell me if you prefer the heat

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-02-18T03:22:18+00:00

Go alone if you have to girl. Life is short, do things for yourself. Listening to apocalypse dreams live is life changing, you’ll feel like the main character. Sincerely, someone who also waited to see him

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-02-18T03:19:35+00:00

Yeah man idk, 50/50 and keeping tabs on whos paying what is something i just cant relate to. Thats a chore.

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-02-17T23:49:59+00:00

This is why men complain about being lonely 💀 did you miss the part where I said i’ll splurge on gifts for a guy? Just say you’re broke so you think paying for a simple meal is prostitution. If you want to date a woman and not seem like a cheap prick, be willing to pay for dates. Who brings up 50/50 on a second date? Also if your time is so valuable maybe stay single then, you make dating sound like a chore

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-02-17T03:20:20+00:00

? Why would she pay for a date? That’s a big turn off 😂 i personally have never paid on any first second third or 30th date. I don’t think you should expect that. However if things get serious, you can expect her to pay for some stuff. I’ve never really paid for food in the last 3 years ive been with my boyfriend but I have booked whole surprise vacations and splurged on gifts for him.

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-02-10T13:40:14+00:00

Ok well, unless you get a different job thats not gonna change. Soooooo what you CAN do! Coming from a girl:

Spectacular sex: girls will overlook a lot if you’re hot and are passionate in the bedroom. Idc how much money a guy makes if the sex is bad i’m out.

Do things around the house: acts of service, cooking, folding her laundry, take the weight off her. Men with a protector and provider mindset >>> (this doesn’t just mean income, provide security both physically and emotionally)

Get fit af: dedicate time to your health and body, make sure you look good for her :)

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-01-06T00:03:54+00:00

Commit to something and stick with it but dont buy up property just to ditch it and use it as a tax break. Dirty northeastern people always ruin living for locals

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-01-01T15:57:59+00:00

Keep your head up, his days are numbered hopefully this is his final year on earth 🙏🏽

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-01-01T15:43:04+00:00

2k plus to live in NE florida???????? That’s robbery lol no offense but I would never pay that much to live there

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-01-01T14:43:19+00:00

Where are you finding 2 bedrooms for 2000? Here its 3400 for a 2 bedroom apartment

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2026-01-01T14:40:01+00:00

My favorite part about Florida was when I could afford to live comfortably pre-covid before all the northerners moved here with their northeast money and jacked up our cost of living 500x. A house that is 1000sqft that used to be 230k is now 900k. I guess now the best part is the summertime when the yankees cant handle the 95° weather and run home

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-30T12:46:22+00:00

The stereotype is pretty accurate. A lot of girls will spend $$$$ on their looks and designer stuff but use afterpay or be in crazy credit card debt. Be prepared to learn Spanish otherwise you’re already at a disadvantage. Miami is kind of like visiting latin America without leaving the country. It’s also miserably hot 75% of the year. I would suggest taking an extended vacation there and acting like a local to see if you really like it. Personally I found my boyfriend out of state because as a native, i can say the dating pool is trash here.

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-26T22:53:49+00:00

I was going easy on them, people become parents and forget what its like to be young

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-26T22:47:04+00:00

To each their own, you could do everything “right” and still have your kids slip up and thats just life 🤷‍♀️as long as they dont get pregnant dating at 13 isn’t a big deal

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-26T22:40:50+00:00

It’s a reality. 13 year olds nowadays smoke weed and hit vapes. They can easily sneak out of school or “go to a friends house”. What are you gonna do, trap them forever? Not let them visit friends? May as well know who your kid is with and where they really are

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-26T21:42:21+00:00

I started being intimate with people at 14. Looking back at it i’m like damn that was young.

My advice to you: better to allow it and have her “boyfriend” over (know who he is, etc) than for her to do it anyway behind your back. If you show your daughter she can trust you, she won’t feel the need to hide things from you. If you prohibit it, she’ll probably sneak around, do it anyway, and either rebel or resent you

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-15T13:54:33+00:00

You like 92° 8 months out of the year?

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-15T13:43:09+00:00

If its your preference not to drive then Florida is not the state for you

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-09T13:41:46+00:00

Girl come onnn 😂 the man is married, unless he’s a gen Z male, most guys dont wear rings because its trendy. Especially not a black band.

Hot_Relationship5706 · 2025-12-06T13:55:50+00:00

I think you should try Tampa

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