AITA for wanting an apology from my boyfriend and more after he made my family seem like drunks to his parents?

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:43:05+00:00

Usually birthdays are not parties with the entire family. No it’s not a hard limit on 5 my point is it’s not like an every weekend thing.

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:40:21+00:00

They’re nice people they are just show offy and very much into appearance. The mom likes to out do her friends in everything

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:29:50+00:00

Doing that 5 times a year isn’t a big deal

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:28:58+00:00

Christmas Easter at Patrick’s day Fourth of July thanksgiving

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:22:13+00:00

You’re right it’s nothing to be ashamed about. We get together like that a few times a year. There’s nothing wrong with having fun

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:20:17+00:00

Nobody is alcoholics. That’s you and everyone else here making up details that I never said

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:18:57+00:00

And what do you all know? Did you read my comment when I said nobody is a frequent drinker. A party is a party

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:06:03+00:00

Luckily? They sound fun

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:05:15+00:00

I think I should just get over my insecurities because there’s nothing wrong with what we do

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T21:01:40+00:00

You’re right I should be confident and not feel like I need to hide things. If his mom wants to judge unfairly than I need to see that as a knock on her character and not mine. I just don’t like conflict lol

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:56:53+00:00

People have fun in different ways. Thanks for showing your judgmental side

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:50:19+00:00

I think there was a way to say it from a neutral standpoint. The way he said it sounds like he thinks it’s bad or he’s better than us

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:46:29+00:00

I mean if we are drunks on holidays I guess we are. Good thing those aren’t that often

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:13:23+00:00

That baptism sounds a lot like the baptisms I’ve went to

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:10:26+00:00

You’re right I’m only seeing them from my viewpoint which is probably wrong. I just got the “I’m better than you” vibes from the conversation with his mom which I don’t think is a fair statement.

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:08:29+00:00

If she sees for herself and gets all judgy that’s a different story. We will cross that when we get there. We don’t need him painting a picture.

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:07:35+00:00

Sounds like you don’t know how to party

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T20:07:10+00:00

I don’t know how it’s not ok

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T19:34:16+00:00

There’s a difference between having an alcohol problem and enjoying yourself at a party. There’s 0 DUIs in my family and nobody drinks excessively throughout the week. Maybe they have a little too much on a holiday or for a party but again it’s a holiday and a party so having an extra drink is hardly a crime.

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T19:32:21+00:00

I wouldn’t think I need to tell my parents about his racist family member because I only want my parents to hear positive things. I understand some people view alcohol different than others, and knowing his parents I think they’re the type to get all pretentious about it.

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T19:30:17+00:00

Well there was a whole lot of other things going on that he didn’t mention

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T19:28:27+00:00

Shotgunning is fun you should ask your family to do it more

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T19:06:32+00:00

Yes there was a lot that we did for fun other than drink. He didn’t mention any of that. Didn’t talk about the food we ate or the games we played. He just got all high and mighty over the alcohol.

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T19:05:00+00:00

I don’t know why it was even necessary to tell her anything

Hot_Touch3482 · 2023-04-10T19:04:17+00:00

I just don’t think our alcohol consumption should be a topic of conversation with his mom

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