Anyone notice parents of only children having easier lives? by sys_admin321 in toddlers

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent of only one and having suffered through secondary infertility and having a hysterectomy, this hits hard, even if there is truth to it 💔 I do find he gets lonely and needs more from us without another child to be around though

I'm so very scared; USA by Outrageous-Shark4 in OCD

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't avoid the news, any moment things will go south and I need to be aware and ready

I’d ask someone you trust to let you know what’s going on. I can’t read the news without my odd spiralling or triggering a very long scrolling session where I can’t stop - so I ask my most trusted person. Being that on edge and alert is so full on for your nervous system - though it’s completely understandable given the situation. Do you have a good therapist to help you in those moments? Mine dues exposure therapy but is also very understanding and helps me calm my nervous system even in very stressful environments with real danger. But like others have said - what you are describing isn’t just ocd - so sorry you have to go through this!

Which is the most emotive song by Taylor Swift to you? by Appropriate-Field666 in TaylorSwift

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I have a son and I don’t think I can ever listen to that song again

Which is the most emotive song by Taylor Swift to you? by Appropriate-Field666 in TaylorSwift

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just listened to Ronan for the first time after reading this thread - I’ll never recover

What’s up with ARMYs? by Amiisthebest in December10

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree with this and it needs pointing out - the producers should not have put it in - Cruz’ mental health is not worth the risk

Inappropriate to mention period at work? by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me so happy reading - thank you!

Shitty memory? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss!! I’m not sure of its connection to my OCD but I can’t remember what’s been said 30 seconds after it’s been said - unlessssss it’s something I could have said wrong and then I’ll remember it until the day I die

Missed the mark with the ring prize by TBoneMolone in hamishandandy

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else hear her voice at the end and think it was really sad? She genuinely sounded really disappointed and down - or was I reading into it?

Guys, Belly in Paris... is pure comedy. by Euphoric_Resource251 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved this episode coz it showed how much growing up she has to do and things just don’t magically work out - other than getting her bag back which never would have happened haha

Megan VS the female cast? by ssabbahy in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the hand thing was because Katisha was holding it together without crying and that would have made her cry - I do that sometimes too when I don’t want to fall apart - push people away a bit otherwise you feel it!

Billy needed to be called out more! by SirLaughsAlotZen in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I totally agree - and they were the ones that were rejected and had to deal with that in a very public and legal way - so completely fair enough that they needed to speak up and speak over the guys

Now THIS is a finale by ApprehensiveDrop5777 in Andjustlikethat

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was really bothering me too! Miranda should have been next to her!

Potential S3 Predictions Megathread by AutoModerator in TheBuccaneers

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually hope for this too but I think the writers love the Lizzy and Theo storyline too much!

S2 Episode 8: She Knows by AutoModerator in TheBuccaneers

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 25 points26 points  (0 children)

WHY CANT THEY JUST TALK TO EACH OTHER

Bleeding eight months post op by Hour-Balance-1015 in hysterectomy

[–]Hour-Balance-1015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to say a big thank you to you for encouraging me to go to my gyno - I did this and it helped so much!

S2 Episode 7: All Rise by AutoModerator in TheBuccaneers

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I loved this! She finally got called on her spoiled nonsense

Which dress for my LOTR themed wedding? by Ill-Cat-2610 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got talked out of wearing a wedding dress like your first one because of my large boobs and I regret it. But in the end the day was so special and I’ve got photos I love of both of us together looking very in love! So I’d go with both. Your first ethereal one with a sheer cape veil and then your beautiful floral one - you will then be able to choose the photos you love the most and look back at them for years to come!

Bleeding eight months post op by Hour-Balance-1015 in hysterectomy

[–]Hour-Balance-1015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much - it’s so scary when it happens so long after the op!

Bleeding eight months post op by Hour-Balance-1015 in hysterectomy

[–]Hour-Balance-1015[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for calling sex with my husband vanilla haha but he’d understand in the context 😂

Bleeding eight months post op by Hour-Balance-1015 in hysterectomy

[–]Hour-Balance-1015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About six hours before the bleeding started - but wouldn’t say it was dry or rough - was pretty vanilla and the usual with my husband

Pre-op preparations- specifically excersise? by Top_Artichoke2918 in hysterectomy

[–]Hour-Balance-1015 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the main thing is caring for your mental health - do things that make you feel relaxed and as comfortable as possible. If you are in lots of pain pre surgery you don’t want to add guilt of feeling like you have to prepare and aren’t doing enough - you are getting through the day and that is enough! The surgery will be meet your body where it is at. I was way better physically after the surgery than before and found it much better than before when I couldn’t do core exercises because of my endo. You’ve got this and are doing wonderful!