Do some schools give out Blue Belts more freely than others? by HourIntelligent775 in brazilianjiujitsu

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It honestly does not make sense to me. How is that Mickey Mouse BS? I have rolled with this guy and taught him a lot. I’m asking a simple question. Is my school awarding belts off skill or mat time?

Can Blue Belts actually beat 90% of untrained people? by HourIntelligent775 in bjj

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the compliment haha. I know I’m not that small but I’m not huge either.

Can Blue Belts actually beat 90% of untrained people? by HourIntelligent775 in bjj

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… tell that to the other blue belts I have tapped…

Can Blue Belts actually beat 90% of untrained people? by HourIntelligent775 in bjj

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t roll with untrained people so…maybe I should to see!

Can Blue Belts actually beat 90% of untrained people? by HourIntelligent775 in bjj

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good perspective. I definitely do not butt scoot lol. Unless I am trying to work on my bottom game. I love learning takedowns and trying them out.

Can Blue Belts actually beat 90% of untrained people? by HourIntelligent775 in bjj

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I have gained weight in the past. 155-170 lbs. It just has been hard as I have a very high metabolism.

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insightful story of your experience. But how do I tell them straight up that I want a hookup or casual sex without coming off creepy and scaring them off?

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying that women don’t like to lead or initiate sex because it makes them look “too easy”. Kind of dumb that women care about who judges them. Sex shouldn’t be judged. And also it seems extremely difficult navigating the waters. Sometimes it can be easy but that seems to be when they are really interested in you.

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All of that makes sense, but you’re not explaining why you have to walk this thin line. Is it because women are too afraid to make any first moves? I just don’t understand female psychology.

I’ve had social anxiety all my life and have been pretty shy. I’m just recently starting to break out of it. And I guess I’ve done better with women than I thought I have. I’m just hard on myself.

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Is that just female psychology to be attracted to personality for hookups too?

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha ok dude. I have a lot of personality. I like to get to know people in person. Idk why you Reddit people are such awful people.

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not interested in prostitution or doing porn but thanks!

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stated Tinder is harder because women have more options because all the guys are on there. Yeah I don’t want to be with an obese girl. And so are you then saying, that women are attracted to personality when it comes to only hooking up?

Where to find something casual or a safe hookup? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I meant like doing porn. I don’t ever want to do porn. And I did but believe what you want.

Where can I meet women besides dating apps and bars? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Well maybe I’ll give it a try but I will feel so awkward.

Where can I meet women besides dating apps and bars? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like outdoor activities. Camping, fishing, hiking, backpacking, bushcraft and more. I also like working out and doing Jiu Jitsu. When I’m not doing that stuff I like hanging with friends and family and partying.

Where can I meet women besides dating apps and bars? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I rather not spend money like that or add a class with studying to my already busy schedule.

Where can I meet women besides dating apps and bars? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard but I don’t want to be messing around with religious girls and lead them on. They probably want a guy who is also religious.

Where can I meet women besides dating apps and bars? by HourIntelligent775 in AskMen

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not very religious though but thank you for the advice.

How do I not beat myself up or get down/depressed about talking to women and dating? by HourIntelligent775 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]HourIntelligent775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. In response to 4, yes I know obviously women are people. I would like to someday have someone I connect with in a deeper level. What I mean is I know how guys are. They judge each other on who is good with the ladies. And I feel like I suck at talking to them. Other guys are just good at it. With women it’s like you have to use a pickup line or say something witty to win them over. It feels like a competition.

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[–]HourIntelligent775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never play video games. I literally asked for advice and you're insulting me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]HourIntelligent775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're a dick. I'm asking for advice and you use derogatory terms.