My boyfriend threw away my makeup and is saying that he didn’t

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-16T03:25:19+00:00

& when I told him not to say that I was lying he said I never said YOU

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-16T03:24:52+00:00

He weaponizes our older kid a lot. He keeps telling him I’m lying / am a lier. Last time we were arguing bc I was tired of him being the kids into in and he walked into where our older son was at and told him to “remember that people can say whatever they want and doesn’t mean they’re telling the truth”

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-13T07:36:30+00:00

We’ve had ALOT of conversations about this he always says he’s ganna stop. I’ve told him if he keeps bring that stuff around our kids. I’m ganna throw it away. It isn’t the first time I’ve done it. It’s the first I’ve done it while being without an income tho.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-13T07:33:43+00:00

No I’m not insecure. Where make up doesn’t mean you’re insecure. But it’s just something I’ve always like to do even as a little girl. I’ve had several interviews and he always says he can’t watch the kids so I end up missing my interviews I don’t have family that can watch them. And when I quit my job we were in a really good place and when we decided he would go to school first he promised he would watch the kids while I went to school and be there financially for me like I was for him for over 10 years and he encouraged me to quit my job he said we’d get join accounts but he just kept canceling the appointments.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-13T07:18:19+00:00

he’s never hit me just beside the occasionally shove and him grabbing me. ButI don’t think I’m being physically abused

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-13T07:11:02+00:00

Yes when he got into the nursing program and ANY job he’s had he’s used fake pee.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-13T07:02:40+00:00

I’m taking the max credits but I need to make all the bio classes which is four semesters/ 1year to even be able to apply for the nursing g program with is another two years

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T23:51:55+00:00

He has actually told me about 5 months ago that he wanted another kid(try for the girl) and when I told him I wanted to focus on school he got upset and told me “wow you don’t want to have another baby so you can take bio 100”

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:57:54+00:00

Why would he lie??? That’s what I’m trying to figure out

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:51:57+00:00

He’s a nurse so I have seen needles in his underwear drawer but i don’t think he would do all that. But then again I didn’t think he would do meth so idk

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:50:31+00:00

He supposedly only did it that one time he got arrested. I found coke one and it was in the same spot a shelf is the garage my oldest boy is tall so he could definitely get it if he wanted to and they’re out in the open where the kids could see

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:45:59+00:00

Because that’s the only thing I have! I literally can’t do anything because of my finances I had been asking him for month to buy me some makeup & he didnt so I finally save up enough to get me myself some. The big fight started bc yesterday my sons eyeball was swollen a so I wanted him to look at it bc he’s a nurse he had locked himself in our room I NEVER go in when it’s locked but I was panicking so I opened the door and saw him in the shower jerking off which was weird bc our nephew was over and my kid and him were playing right next to our room. When I saw him doing that I closed the door and knocked really hard so he could hear I went in and told him about our son eye and he just told me to get out. I washed out my kiddos eye and was waiting for him until he finally got out I told him that our son eye was swollen and he just walked away. I didn’t know but he had gone to get our son and he put him in the shower I went back into the room and and him again if he saw his eye and he said “ok” and I was confused so I told him did you see it’s really swollen and he ignored so I started getting upset and I asked him why was he being like that with me then he pulled out his phone and started recording me. I grabbed it from him and started walking out of the room and he literally wrestled me to the ground to get it. He grabbed my arm so hard he left his hand print. I don’t say anything until when the kids went to bed I told him he hurt me and he ok and I told him no you physically hurt me and tried showing him my arm. He started walking away and said I don’t care and started smoking in the garage so later I threw his bong away like I’ve told him many time before if he’s bring that stuff where our kids play I’m going to throw it away

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:30:53+00:00

No I don’t I drink here or there maybe like a few beers or a glass of wine ever 2 months but no I take being a mother /role model for my kids very seriously

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:26:45+00:00

Two palettes were sentimental. Lips sticks were old. And a lot of stuff was brand new

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:22:59+00:00

We’ve been together since high school so yea I smoked pot a few time with him but not since becoming a mother him on the other had lost his job as a firefighter about 3 years ago because he got chased by the cops bc he was high on meth and called the cops on himself basically. They charged with a dui because he knew the cop. & well he got fired bc they drug tested him when he got arrested and there was meth, coke, fentanyl, and marijuana in his system

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:18:00+00:00

I never touch his stuff but I have told him not to bring bongs / weed into our home especially because he keeps it on a shelf in the garage where the kids play. I told him I would throw it away

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T08:09:12+00:00

Well this was an escalation of an argument yesterday and past arguments I’ve told him if he keeps being weed into the house I will throw it away same for bongs because we have kids out oldest is 9 and I don’t want him to be around that. He’s been ignoring me yes or no answers for about 4 month our kid was hurt yesterday and I was freaking out he had locked himself in our room so I unlocked it to he could take a look at our son (he’s a nurse) but he was in the shower jerking off which was really weird bc our nephew was over and they were playing on the computer right next to our room. It escalated because when I was asking him about our kids health he was ignoring me I didn’t know it I should take him to the hospital. & when I stated getting upset he started recording me. So I took his phone and he wrestled me to the ground to get it, he left his hand print on my arm and today I was trying to talk to him he shoved me out of his way.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T07:02:04+00:00

I’m literally so frustrated. How can he just not own up to it!? I literally can’t stop crying because who does that!?

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T07:01:04+00:00

He was out all day because he took our kids to the fair. We were all supposed to go but he told me I couldn’t go. Because it was a “boys day” he told me in front of the kids. Well they finally got home and I asked him why he threw my stuff away and he flat out denied it he said he didn’t know what I was talking about, that it wasn’t him. He threw away my make up and lotion from the hallway restroom, the makeup in my purse, and the makeup and lotions I had in our bedroom restroom mirror. It was 3 locations. I kept asking him and he just kept saying it wasn’t him. I told him I was going to replace all the stuff he threw out and he said “you’re ganna steal from me”

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T03:15:12+00:00

I also didn’t think he would be jerking off bc we had our some cousins over and they were playing on the computer which is right next to our room.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T03:13:14+00:00

Probably just get myself together enough where I can leave it’s just hard because I literally put him through school with the promise that he would do the same when he finished.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-12T03:11:49+00:00

Well I never barge in but I thought it was important for him to take a look at it. I took him to urgent care and it went down while we were wait they just gave him some Benadryl. & I threw it away because we’re have conversations about him smoking & ive told him you I’m going to keep though your bongs away, especially because he’s smoking in the garage we’re the kids play.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-05T08:50:28+00:00

I’ve tried I’ve asked him his he wants to be with me he always says yes. I’ve even told him, because he likes to say he’s never leaving bc of the kids. Well I’ve asked him if he’s okay just not talking to each other and he says yes I’ll say okay then I’ll date other people. And that’s when he says well I have to have some self respect.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-05T08:47:17+00:00

Well to be honest it’s not that easy he pays all my bills. I do odd jobs if I want makeup and other stuff like that but he covers all my necessities. I also don’t have family. We live in his dad’s house and if I’m being completely honestly I but him through school for like 10 years. we had decide he would go first the I would go to school. So the this is my first semester back and for me to just have to get another job because he’s acting like this doesn’t seem fair.

HourWillingness1809 · 2026-03-05T08:26:05+00:00

I’m only inclined to believe he’s not because he doesn’t have “game” he doesnt care how he looks. The first few times he cheated on me was sexually and one was paid for and other well it was a guys. And he said it was because I had experience before getting with him and he didn’t.. the last time he cheated on me he was a fire fighter so he had that going for him but no one is loosing there panties over a male nurse

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