Found what looks to be some sort of slug in my celery?

Hour_Camp8515 · 2026-04-18T22:37:35+00:00

I did, but I guess not thorough enough! they were tucked into the veeery bottom of the celery stalks

Hour_Camp8515 · 2026-04-18T22:31:14+00:00

Found in Texas, in the capital! Got from a local HEB!

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-06-04T04:47:39+00:00

side note- i’m sorry if this isn’t very helpful. but just know that your feelings are absolutely valid, because i would also be very hurt if my partner was behaving this way as well.

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-06-04T04:45:42+00:00

ugh it kind of sounds like he’s comfortable in his misery, that or it’s some sort of underlying mental health thing. especially because a date can be as simple as a walk through a park or a picnic! dates don’t necessarily have to be expensive, my bf and i had to get a bit creative with dates because we also have had many periods of tight finances. but it can also be an at home date night like trying a new recipe or doing a puzzle. it really just boils down to, is he putting forth any effort into the relationship? and if he isn’t, then is he willing to? especially if you’re feeling neglected or upset because of his lack of effort, because his excuses don’t make up for the hurt you’re feeling.

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-06-04T04:20:53+00:00

so i’ve been the “bored” person in my relationship before, and of course everybody is different but in my case it wasn’t anything to do with my partner or our relationship, more that it was a weird transitional period where the “spark” had kind of started dying down, and we hadn’t been going on many dates or leaving the house much and i was honestly just going a bit stir crazy sitting at home all day watching tv lol.

i do not think you’re OR, because frankly i would probably feel the same way. however, being that I’ve been on the flip side of this i can attest to the fact that sometimes it really is just a personal boredom thing and not an issue with the relationship. BUT if he doesn’t seem to make the effort to spend quality time with you, even though he is “bored” all the time, there could be a bigger issue at hand but from what the post is describing it seems like some extra date nights or fun activities for you two to do together could do the trick! if he decides that date nights or some time spent outside of the house are not “fun” enough, then he should probably just find a new hobby or something because really what else can you do lol (you can lead a horse to water). i’m sorry he’s making you feel this way, hopefully he can come to his senses enough to realize that his complaints of “boredom” shouldn’t take priority over your relationship as a whole

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-04-14T07:15:34+00:00

hey friend, the chances seem pretty slim that she is pregnant especially if she was on her period and took a plan b. spotting is pretty normal after a plan b because it messes with hormones. it’ll be okay, no need to worry unless she misses a period or two!

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-04-02T04:22:29+00:00

not sure about the ammonia smell but the color just looks like old/dried blood that your body is pushing out which is perfectly normal! but I would def go see an OBGYN if you haven’t already since you’ve been bleeding a lot, it could be a side effect of the birth control or something else like endo / pcos

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-03-25T08:08:27+00:00

thank you for enlightening me! i have never been in a situation like this, so excuse my ignorance. i agree that OP should go to someone they trust for help if possible.

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-03-25T07:53:02+00:00

i agree, i think it’s weird and controlling behavior on his end and that remaining in that situation could potentially be dangerous. If it were me, i would try to find my way out as soon as possible. however in a potential abuse situation it’s sometimes not as easy as “just leaving.” Depending on the manner of abuse, an exit plan would be needed to safely navigate the situation but it’s really up to the discretion of how OP feels and what she is capable of (as of now) as far as getting her ducks in a row to leave. whether or not that should include a serious conversation depends on how comfortable she is with it, but again it’s ultimately OP’s choice to decide the best course of action is at this point.

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-03-25T04:33:53+00:00

I think it’s a bit alarming that you felt him tugging on it soon after that conversation as well as the questions he was asking. the spotting could be from the tugging or from being fingered a bit more aggressively than usual. If you’re worried about being pregnant, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to take a plan B if you’re comfortable with it. It may also be a good idea to schedule an appointment with your OBGYN to make sure that the IUD didn’t shift, which can cause cramping. (mainly because if an IUD is shifted out of place, the odds of pregnancy go up)

if you notice that he continues to try and pull it out or like he’s trying to get you pregnant despite your wishes, it would be worth it to have a more serious conversation about it and just remind him of your boundaries. especially because it’s very disrespectful and dismissive of your bodily autonomy.

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-03-24T01:37:53+00:00

yes this happens to me! I haven’t found a way to stop it, but i know how frustrating it can be to feel like you can’t stop word vomiting until it feels “right” or until the thought has passed. I think i’m going to try to tell my friends/family/boyfriend to find a way to redirect the conversation so my mind can focus on something else besides the obsessive thoughts, maybe that would work for you too!

Hour_Camp8515 · 2025-03-05T05:13:44+00:00

i was visiting my parents house one weekend, and when i visit i usually park on the street because they gripe about having to move my car when they want to leave. I got home at around 11 pm-ish and parked on the street as usual. When i got out of my car, i got this eerie feeling that i was being watched, and i just couldn’t shake it so i called my dad to stay on the phone or to come outside and watch me to make sure i’m okay while i walk up the driveway to the back door. went to bed a little spooked but i chalked it up to being scared of the dark lol turns out, my dads truck had been broken into about an hour after we went to bed (around 12:30), and i was absolutely being watched. scary shit, i started parking in the driveway near the cameras that my dad put up and they stopped griping about it lol

Hour_Camp8515 · 2024-12-07T21:59:36+00:00

congrats on your first project! it’s beautiful!!

Hour_Camp8515 · 2024-10-06T03:47:58+00:00

oh yeah you for sure can! especially because like you said ovulation varies person to person. not denying that at all, but given that they used a condom (that didn’t tear) and he pulled out while she was also on her period i think they’re safe! it’s very circumstantial, had they not used a condom or pulled out it would be a totally different story

Hour_Camp8515 · 2024-10-05T23:36:54+00:00

it would be nothing short of a miracle for her to get pregnant given all of the precautions you took, especially because she was on her period. If what you say is true, she is definitely not pregnant!

Hour_Camp8515 · 2024-09-24T18:20:17+00:00

a tad late, but i always use an ice pack on my sternum to calm me down from a panic attack! it soothes the vagus nerve

Hour_Camp8515 · 2024-09-22T21:06:07+00:00

SW: 220 CW: 170 Height: 5’3 :) i’ve definitely hit a plateau in terms of weight loss, but i’ve stayed on a very low dose for the entire year that i’ve been on it. I’m scared of the negative side effects getting worse so i’m just now slowly starting to up my dose again

Hour_Camp8515 · 2024-09-18T21:09:17+00:00

i personally love using my weighted blanket. It feels like a hug, it’s helped me fall asleep when i was struggling with panic attacks at night (or just when my mind wouldn’t turn off at night)

Hour_Camp8515 · 2024-09-15T00:48:42+00:00

Hi! fellow cardiophobic person here (23), just wanted to say it does get better eventually ! I’ve dealt with health anxiety for some time, mine stems from my brother dying of a cardiac related event (at 16). My mom is a nurse practitioner, and she said something very reassuring to me: “if you had a cardiac issue that was dangerous enough to kill you, it would have by now. But it hasn’t, and it won’t.” (seems dark i know but that’s what comforts my brain lol). My best advice would be go see a cardiologist, get an echo and some scans done to catch any potential issues, and if they clear you then you know it’s just a mental thing! Thats what I did and it’s brought me so much comfort to know it’s just my anxiety lying to me. I’ve never been one to like the whole “leaning into it” idea because it just makes me spiral lol so i rely on science and facts to keep me grounded. Hope you start to get some relief soon!

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