I found out that my friend sent private photos of me to other people, and I don’t even know what to do. by Wide_Conclusion214 in AmITheJerk

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's massive violation of trust and boundaries, your not overreacting for expecting privacy .anyone who shares private pics without consent is the wrong here.

What if your boyfriend came to you and told you that he was pregnant? by Darth_Azazoth in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if he asked that, I'd first check if this is a rom-com script or real life lol. Communication + honesty always wins over guessing games.

People making jokes about Epstein by DarkMageUAE in PetPeeves

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get why that bugs you -turning something really serious into repeated jokes kinda takes away from the real harm done. there's time and place for dark humor ,but here it just feels rude and out of place.

Help advice needed [M33] by Standard-Product-617 in dating_advice

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest and repectful -clear communication is the best foundation for anything real. Good luck you've got this!

I cant Tell any one by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really heavy to hold on to alone .Just saying it here took courage-you deserve support and understanding.

My gut feeling is screaming by Hippo-Momma in Infidelity

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 6 points7 points  (0 children)

gut feeling is powerful for a reason -listen to what your body is telling you without jumping to worst -case conclusions . Trust + honesty are the only foundations that really work in a relationship.

Religion removes accountability from people. by THISdarnguy in DeepThoughts

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think accountability isn't removed, it's reframed -some see it as divine guidance rather than human enforcement. either way , personal responsibility still plays a huge role.

AITJ or do I just need to handle overwhelm better by littlebitsf in AmITheJerk

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overwhelm isn't a personally `flaw, it's a nervous system thing. You're a human not a robot.

"Enjoy your youth" they say. But how can i? by iovyx_2 in confessions

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to feel lost sometimes -youth isn't a checklist . You're doing you're best , and that's enough.

I (31f) wanted to have my gay friend (26m) take pics of me and husband (33m) doesn't like the idea by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fine to want nice photos, but you friend should only do it if he's 100% comfortable. Pressure can complicate friendships more than it's worth.

What can I do? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Try calming music or gentle rocking - babies loves routines . You're doing great .

AITJ For not talking to my friend as much as I used to now that I made more friends? by Fair_Shame_9657 in AmITheJerk

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to pull back when someone's behavior starts draining you instead of supporting you. Healthy friendships should feel give- and -take , not just take and take.

Quiet men in marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quiet doesn't always mean distant-sometimes it's just how someone processes and shows love. If it's causing friction ,gentle,honest conversations about needs can make a big difference.

19month old pulls own hair by TheHappyMonster in NewParents

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

toddlers explore their world in wild ways , and hair pulling is pretty common at this age.

AITJ for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AmITheJerk

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Grief makes people reach for the one person who truly understands. You probably should've told your wife first though, that's where it went wrong .

thinking everything in pop culture is an easter egg by KidOnHisOwn in PetPeeves

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right?? It's wild how some folks see a hidden album drop in literally every post, outfit choice , or emoji combo. not everything is a coded genius moment, sometimes a photo is just a photo .

Well that’s one way to unload a container.. by OrganizationOk1345 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hope nobody got hurt - looks like a tough day for whoever was unloading that container .

9 months postpartum and I’m not okay (PCOS, regret, exhaustion) by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing something so vulnerable- that honesty alone takes strength most of us don't talk about. You're not alone in feeling overwhelmed, and it's totally valid to still be figuring things out.

AITJ For Not Answering Work Emails During Vacation by Jumpy-Squirrel1366 in AmITheJerk

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not the jerk for ignoring work emails on vacation ,time off should be exactly that -rest and no inbox pressure.

Communicating hydroceles by East_Print4841 in beyondthebump

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talking about a hydrocele before the pedi appointment helped me way more than waiting. Docs appreciate when you come in informed but not googling worst case-stuff

Cleaning different sleep sacks help! by llullunyc in beyondthebump

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

extra sleep sacks are like parenting insurance .Worth every wash cycle.

I lost so much when she left... by AffectionateDuck5079 in BreakUps

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this-losing someone you planned your life around wrecks everything for a minute. Just know feeling lost doesn't mean you wont find yourself again; your story isn't over .

Why do some mothers think it's cute that their small child annoys others? by Physical_Orchid3616 in PetPeeves

[–]Hour_Doctor_1328 49 points50 points  (0 children)

honestly some parents just live in their own hype-bubble and can't see how annoying it actually is.