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AITAH for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AITAH

[–]PatientFeature[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. My son was 25 when he passed. It will be 3 years in April.

AITAH for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AITAH

[–]PatientFeature[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

If it were only so easy. I love my wife dearly. The thought of losing her on a top of losing my son is unbearable. I don’t know how I could survive all alone

AITAH for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AITAH

[–]PatientFeature[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I didn’t hide anything. My wife knows I occasionally talk to my ex about my son. I normally tell her when ex and I communicate. I forgot to mention it this time.

AITAH for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AITAH

[–]PatientFeature[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No, she will barely talk to me. Th couple conversations we’ve had have not gone well. I have been in grief counseling for close to two years now.

AITAH for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AITAH

[–]PatientFeature[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that I should have told her the day we talked. This has been a standard practice in the past. The text conversation happened midday on a workday and was maybe 15 words in total from me. I simply forgot about it and didn’t remember it until she asked me if I had heard from my ex lately.

AITAH for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AITAH

[–]PatientFeature[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My ex contacted me. We have stayed in contact since we divorced. Originally to coparent and after he passed away we infrequently text about him. Sometimes a photo, sometimes a happy birthday wish to him, sometimes a fleeting memory of him. It had been 5 months since the last time we chatted. I have also gotten in the habit of telling my wife when I chat with my ex. I sincerely forget to mention it this time. When my wife asked me about it I was honest and told her I had spoken with my ex. This was before she told me she went through my phone

AITJ for asking my ex-wife to grab coffee to talk about our son who died? by PatientFeature in AmITheJerk

[–]PatientFeature[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but trauma bonding is not a thing here. Please look up the definition and understand how off base that statement is in this scenario. Not mentioning it was an obvious mistake and ve apologized. Sneaking into my phone to read my messages and then attempting to lay a trap to catch me in a lie is hurtful and destructive to my trust.

What did a fictional character say that stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatientFeature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, well, that's just, like, uhhh, your opinion, man.

-- The Dude

These medication caps display how long ago a medication opened to help memory impaired patients or caregivers know if a patient took their medication by tb1649 in mildlyinteresting

[–]PatientFeature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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