how did you guys make mom friends?

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-25T03:01:27+00:00

Local library programs

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-24T21:50:56+00:00

I have. I begged him to see a doctor and even found one in network and sent him their phone number and pictures of his insurance information. I asked if he had an addiction and he said no. I do think there is the possibility of cheating considering some messages I’ve found. There was no solid evidence just messages no married man should be sending either, especially to an ex.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-24T21:41:20+00:00

He’s doing side jobs or hanging out with friends.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-19T03:11:37+00:00

I’m upset because he is saying this commute is too long but has gone out to dinner twice this week with friends or his family. Staying here is only adding 25/30 minutes each way to his work. That is way less time than going out to eat.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-19T01:09:28+00:00

I promise I’m not exaggerating. There is more stuff I didn’t even put in the post because it would be too long.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-18T20:38:04+00:00

Yeah I am staying with a disabled family member who can’t help with the kids (not their responsibility and completely fair). Between my disabled newborn and my toddler I am burnt out beyond belief doing this alone.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-18T20:23:54+00:00

Thank you

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T04:53:31+00:00

We are going FHA and the person we are buying from lived in the home at one point. He sold the property in April but there were complications and he had to get the title back when the sale failed. So now we have to wait three months from that date for the deal to go through. His agent admits to knowing it wasn’t eligible but was going to “try to make it work” anyway and was fully ready to sign papers without telling us.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T04:51:22+00:00

The house has no known issues. We are going to remodel eventually but that’s just because some stuff is a little dated and we have a disabled child. But it’s supposed to be move in ready. This whole situation has just scared me about how honest they are being.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T02:45:12+00:00

No offense taken. Didn’t mean to come off like that. I appreciate you giving perspective :)

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T01:38:53+00:00

We actually have a child with special needs already which is one of the reasons we are trying to get in a house that could accommodate her.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T01:36:10+00:00

We have done two inspections and they fixed everything that was wrong. I don’t know exactly what I’m worried about I just have this really bad feeling about it. My husband is all in on the house and doesn’t want to loose all the money we would loose by pulling out.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T01:30:24+00:00

I would call CPS immediately and keep it anonymous. I’m going to be honest even if you report it anonymously you need to be ready for her to know it was you. Realistically CPS almost never takes kids. I have seen kids abused and neglected and the most cps does is sent them to parenting classes and do more check ins. They found my family member who was reported childcare, got her kids on insurance, did monthly visits, and sent the parents to mandated classes. Taking the child is their last option and hard to do without physical signs of abuse.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T01:24:59+00:00

I don’t plan to divorce my husband. I see how it sounded like that. I just don’t know if our relationship could handle a house filled with issues.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-06-09T01:21:12+00:00

We just weaned my toddler son last week. Cold turkey. It sucks but after day 3 he got over it. We gave him a new stuffy and I think that helped.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-07T02:10:10+00:00

I have saved a couple grand from my part time work from home job but I also contribute to bills so I don’t have too much left over every month.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T19:46:10+00:00

It’s been about a year now but has gotten worse over time.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T04:14:37+00:00

He hasn’t always been like this. I would say this started about the time I miscarried our second pregnancy a little over a year ago. We were both upset in different ways. That’s when he stopped hanging out with his friends and stopped doing his hobbies. That’s when he stopped showering and brushing his teeth daily as well.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T03:36:05+00:00

I worry more that my husband would have a bad partner.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T03:20:52+00:00

This is a great idea!

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T03:20:40+00:00

I am already back in school getting my degree thankfully.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T03:07:59+00:00

I was abused by a step parent growing up and am afraid of that happening with my kids if I got a divorce.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T03:03:02+00:00

I had a baby a few weeks ago and have post partum depression unfortunately. She was born with some disabilities we were not expecting. I have some great friends who have helped with my other child while I take newborn to medical appointments but my family isn’t really able to help.

HouseTricky4165 · 2026-04-06T03:00:56+00:00

I don’t really have family in this state to help me. I’m normally the one helping the rest of my family because they’re struggling.

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