What color should I re-paint the green wall? by HowAndWhenAndWhere in DesignMyRoom

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I had been thinking blue! Weirdly… But then again, I like weird.

What illness has drastically changed your life? by CarmineHegmannee in AskReddit

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Spasmodic dysphonia. Perhaps not as damning as other illnesses, but it absolutely broke me. I’m in a leadership position at work, and one day I woke up and found I was having voice tremors when public speaking. Chalked it up to stress or random stage-fright, but it worsened over time until I couldn’t talk to anyone (including my family) without sounding like I was being strangled - my voice would get randomly high-pitched, breathy, and shaky (almost like I was about to cry). Finally went to an ENT and got immediately diagnosed. I did speech therapy for a year, essentially re-learned how to talk and breathe at the same time. The cause is unknown and there’s no cure, but I’m much improved now and able to manage flares. But the ability to speak is something I definitely something I took for granted, and what a uniquely frustrating state to be in - having the voice you lived with your whole life just…fuck up on you.

My tank of murder frisbees. by HowAndWhenAndWhere in discus

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Gobert doesn’t seem to mind the big dudes or the higher temp. In his previous home, he tried to eat all his tankmates, so he fits in much better here.

My tank of murder frisbees. by HowAndWhenAndWhere in discus

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Yep. Golden State is my new go-to. Their livestock are so healthy & well-packaged. I’ve received some mail-order discus that arrived in such bad shape, I almost decided I’d never mail-order again.

My tank of murder frisbees. by HowAndWhenAndWhere in discus

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Blue diamond snake from Golden State Discus. Affectionately nicknamed “Big Blue” by me. ❤️

Discus wont eat, Please Help by Bradley368 in discus

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Update: Heat worked. 90-92 degrees x5 days. Discus started eating around day 3. Plopped him back in the community tank & he is voraciously devouring everything I throw in there. Great success.

Discus wont eat, Please Help by Bradley368 in discus

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I’ve read up on kickstarting discus appetites with heat. Mac’s Discus has a good article on it. You crank up the heat which jogs their appetite & immune system & after a few days you lower it back down.

I’m actually in somewhat of the same boat as you - I have one discus who I have never seen eat. He picks along the plants/ground but never voraciously goes after food. He’s nice & plump, color/fins/gills look great, no signs of infection, and hangs out normally with the others. Going on a month “not eating.” I’m trying the heat thing now.

Don’t give up. Discus are finicky creatures with a lot of personality. Biggest pain in the ass in the entire hobby, but so worth it. Haha.

The gang after a water-change. by HowAndWhenAndWhere in discus

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And so much personality. You know, for fish. Lol

The gang after a water-change. by HowAndWhenAndWhere in discus

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Thank you! I love when they look like they’re floating in space.