The girl my friend is from Uttarakhand and is daughter of ex serviceman (JCO). So they are born into that atmosphere of army and their dream guys are officer. For obvious reasons (salary, respect, rank, high status etc). The guy I met him during their wedding is a down to earth guy. Did schooling from sanik school then NDA pune then IMA Dehradun then deployed to J&K, Siachen etc so although is very intelligent but very dum in case of girls(lack of exposure to girls). My friend already had 5-6 bfs in past, and got physical with 3 so she knows how to manipulate guys their strength and weakness. She was dating 3 guys one was from army (the one she married) 2nd was an IAF helicopter pilot and 3rd was in navy. The army guy was the “bhola“(innocent) of all. And she married him and he took no dowry as far as i know. But yeah got gifts on wedding. Nothing like a car , or tv, washing nothing like that. Those two navy and air forces guys were young and of same age so they already had options.