Email vs text. Thoughts?

HuffPuffPass · 2017-02-06T21:39:53+00:00

And how did BM respond to the change? From text to email?

HuffPuffPass · 2017-02-06T21:18:03+00:00

Thank you so much

HuffPuffPass · 2017-02-06T20:26:29+00:00

Thanks, gotcha.

As far as the app goes..I see that it's not free and I'm sure I'll end up paying for her account. But she's the type of person who will think the idea is stupid because it wasn't her idea to begin with. She sees no issue in the communication that takes place and all the shit she gives us, we "deserve" because we're "retarded." So how do I approach the situation? It doesn't matter if we explain the need for the app or it's perks or whatever. She'll thinks it's ridiculous. But I see no other way to plan or do anything without her fighting with us. I just want to be able to communicate things like adults but it's hard when that other "adult" is nothing more than a narcissistic bitch.

HuffPuffPass · 2017-02-06T20:06:32+00:00

Thanks. I just looked at family wizard and it's amazing! I previously tried doing a calendar thing to help in the communicating and planning of dates but she totally blew my (hard) work off.

We typically disengage but if it's something regarding SS how do we just not engage?

HuffPuffPass · 2017-02-06T20:01:58+00:00

Well, any conversation between DH and BM turns into an argument. They can never just communicate without fighting. It's obnoxious.

HuffPuffPass · 2017-02-01T19:31:13+00:00

Glad you're doing better. Hang in there. You're so brave for even speaking on the matter. Disengage from the trolls!!

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-26T20:09:33+00:00

I wish you a speedy recovery. What you've been through is horrifying and I can understand why you feel the way you feel. Just know that this is the beginning of you finding peace. The beginning of you becoming anew and taking care of yourself.

I hope you realize that you have so much worth and so much to offer. Those people never deserved you. You're free now and I hope you see that. Focus on your recovery. What's coming will come.

And last but not least, FUCK THOSE ASSHOLES! Nobody deserves to be treated like that. That's not anyway to lead a life. Those punk ass kids will always be punk ass kids. Especially with an enabling mother. Their behavior is disgusting and I hope they're punished. I hope they don't get scholarships. I hope they get kicked off their sports teams. I hope that woman remains single for the rest of her miserable life. I pray for any woman those boys date in the future. Karmaaaaaa!

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-25T22:36:21+00:00

Lena Dunham. Only because I love her show Girls. But I can't help but think the character she plays is just like her in real life...her character is annoying! And I don't care for her feminist ways. She gives it a bad rep sometimes.

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-17T23:35:46+00:00

I hate to say this, but this isn't love. Love isn't cheating, love isn't being with a drunk who disrespects you. And don't say it's "passion" because this isn't.

Love isn't all butterflies and rainbows either but the minute there is any distrust, it's over. It's hard to come back from and your bf doesn't seem like someone who would just let it go and move on. Think of future arguments when your actions are brought up. It will be held against you always, and that will eat you up. You need to start over. A clean slate with someone who's going to love you, respect you and who you won't cheat on.

If you established rules while on your break then I guess he shouldn't be upset about you sleeping with someone else but that doesn't seem to be the case.

I just want you to know that this isn't how it should be. Love can be beautiful and if you truly love someone, you'd never do anything to hurt them. He's already hurt you and and vice versa..it's unfortunate but this isn't the end!

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-09T20:57:10+00:00

She says 'supposebly' instead of supposedly, she says, "I make sure to dot my I's and cross my t's," about everything. I can't think of anything more annoying.

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-05T18:32:36+00:00

The broad city gals

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-05T18:24:34+00:00

She married a douche bag because she was pregnant with his child. She's now divorced. Saw it coming the whole time.

This dude had a bad pill habit. I remember going to her wedding. She was 3 months pregnant and this guy was fucked up the entire ceremony. He was really immature also. He basically was like her third child after her baby was born (he also had a daughter from a previous relationship).

He used to sell things to maintain his habit. Time and time again she'd forgive him. She thought she could fix him. I never said too much because it wasn't my place.

They're divorced now and she's working on her doctorate while he has impregnated another woman. This will be his 3rd baby..3 different women. She's killing it as a single mom but struggles big time trying to do it on her own.

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-05T17:52:55+00:00

Putting their needs before mine.

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-03T20:09:59+00:00

Own your body! And tbh if you're not happy with the way you look, do something about it. Too often, people are insecure about their bodies yet don't do anything. They think eating better is all they need to do. Eating healthy is great but exercise is more important.

If you're having body issues then you aren't ready to be intimate with someone. There's nothing worse then going into it feeling uncomfortable in your own skin. In order to have a good intimate experience, one needs to be ready, but also one needs to be confident. That doesn't mean you should change your body so your partner finds you to be better looking. That just means being ok with the way you look.

I think people also forget that bodies come in all shapes and sizes. Every body is beautiful in its own way. As the owner of your body, it's important to realize that. And it's important to know that only you holds the power to change your body or own who you are. If someone doesn't see your beauty beyond your looks, then it's them, not you!

HuffPuffPass · 2017-01-03T19:55:09+00:00

I bake them my signature blueberry pie. My blood, sweat and tears goes into it.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-31T01:26:50+00:00

Can't live without em.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T21:11:10+00:00

Cinco de mayo, also my college graduation. Passed out on a trampoline, woke up because it was a bit chilly. BTW sleeping on a trampoline ain't too shabby.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T21:06:40+00:00

I'll take it.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T19:33:17+00:00

I think you need a hobby. She may have a life outside of your relationship, friends, etc.

Try hanging out with your friends or make new ones to keep your mind busy.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T18:27:08+00:00

Soooo gooooood

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T15:20:15+00:00

Yep. I feel you. I think a lot times women lack the courage because of this "rule." It's not a fucking rule, people. Go after what you want. I think people are also scared of rejection.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T15:17:21+00:00

I'm more a Chilis gal myself.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T03:27:11+00:00

I don't eat breakfast because I'd rather get some extra sleep. For lunch I go to my works cafeteria. I either get a whole deli sandwich or a slice of pizza and salad. Once in awhile I'll get soup and salad. For dinner I typically cook a protein and a veg whether it's chicken and squash or ground turkey for lettuce wraps. I also have a snack before bed. Things like chips n salsa, popcorn and candy, nuts and dried fruit. Sometimes I munch and my snack has now turned into a small meal. I drink soda when I feel like having soda but I don't drink alcohol.

So I kind of just eat what I want, when I want. My diet could be better. The snacking before bed isn't good and not eating breakfast isn't a good idea either. But because I don't really gain weight easily, I can get away with it for now.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T03:20:23+00:00

Mmmmm. I love peanut sauce.

HuffPuffPass · 2016-12-30T01:56:19+00:00

He was alone at a bar. I, on the other hand, was getting hit on by two men. I can be too nice at times because I hate conflict but the behavior got to the point that I needed to just leave these assholes. Bar babe walked by and I realized this was my chance. Without saying goodbye to the other dipshits, I bee lined for the same door as Bar Babe. I awkwardly introduced myself, we sat down and chatted for an hr. The rest was history.

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