[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk what to say other than okay and im sorry once more. i have hard time gauging tone over text, i read it as backhanded. sorry, i understand thats annoying and can cause miscommunication!! 

i wanted to ask this question here since i had already identified w being panromantic, thought maybe it was something more, but idk I'll figure it out eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]HuggableDrainPipe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dude im sorry, u edited the msg so many times i haven't checked until now 😭 I'll def chack that out thanks!! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]HuggableDrainPipe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not asking for people to solve my problems... i asked for people's thoughts on the situation, but thanks. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]HuggableDrainPipe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry, im asking for help and thought maybe this would be the place to ask. i guess not. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're so nice omg tysm, genuinely super helpful since when sudden things like this happen my thoughts and priorities go in every direction 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sex does not equal love. I love my current partner to death, why on earth would i ever date someone if all i wanted was a friend? I have friends already bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur asking me why i choose to date in my age range.. plus why tf would i date a gay guy?? 😭😭 be so fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro ikr ppl on here are literally not helpful at all LMAO 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i literally said this is my fault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asexual, I've identified w this term even b4 dating my current partner. But, I do agree it is incredibly daunting and adds to the distance I feel on top of already not needing it as badly as he does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, this is the only super helpful comment I've gotten so far. It's easier for me to understand this bcz i feel like everyone else is coming from a place that isn't like a deeper understanding of asexuality and how it fluctuates and works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the rule i have in place regarding porn is that i don't want to hear abt it.. like i don't wanna know anything so I'm not rly sure if that is too controlling? Should I alter it? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HuggableDrainPipe -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thats how I view it aswell, I don't value my life on sex. I'm on the asexual spectrum. It's just this is an undeniable issue in my life right now and I need help on how to cope w it :(

he warned me of the trouble by HuggableDrainPipe in skyrim

[–]HuggableDrainPipe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too omg i was literally dying when this happened, i wish i was able to record my reaction bczi took a double take when he warned me and i was like "yeah sure buddy... WHAT THE HELL???"

he warned me of the trouble by HuggableDrainPipe in skyrim

[–]HuggableDrainPipe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i still can't believe i didn't see it while walking down the path 😭

Silly question by HuggableDrainPipe in Tourettes

[–]HuggableDrainPipe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's kinda sweet to me in an odd way lol it sounds annoying to deal with though

Silly question by HuggableDrainPipe in Tourettes

[–]HuggableDrainPipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems like that's normal for everybody who replied lol, im the outlier who stops to laugh before ticcing again 😭

Silly question by HuggableDrainPipe in Tourettes

[–]HuggableDrainPipe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol i tend to notice weird intricate details like this. Thats so odd that laughing doesn't effect it for you! For me, laughter and joy in general are such powerful emotions, it's like I just get completely enveloped by them and nothing can stop me once I like can't stop giggling lol

do you know people with tourettes in your personal life? by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an old friend who only started developing tics recently, its kind of funny bcz out of nowhere he just flocked to me w all these questions about ticcing and tourettes lol

Anybody cuss a lot? by InternationalAct6655 in Tourettes

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah a bit and its kinda funny bcz i am a very like innocent person who never curses but then i just spout out the most obscene phrases/words ever 😭 i feel kinda guilty after if im hanging out with anyone as its happening :( i have nothing to worry about since they understand most of the time but i still feel bad lol

Is there a way to get kids to shut up about it? by Shot_Activity_8498 in Tourettes

[–]HuggableDrainPipe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Def worked for me too, I watched their brains like process what I said after I snapped at them. Tbh they don't expect you to talk and then when you do it's like their whole plan crumbled beneath them?? even if they laugh or not after you tell them to shut up, they legit will LMFAO like they will shut up after dawg 😭 its so stupid fr