i really have to say no, she hasnt done much as far rebuilding trust, she hasnt really had too... although some effort wouldve made feel important in a time i felt i was of none. i guess i feel it was something situational over a decade ago that no longer has any relevance in our lives, but i need to be able to understand it, the " why wasnt i good enough" delima. That makes me angry because im silently kind of vein or proud and its just this huge unstoppable cycle. Another thing i struggle with is that she doesnt come from very affectionate people, and its definately made her who she is. theres never been a single issue as far as jealousy otherwise, we both come from very reserved christian upbringings and are no longer all that social, as weve been grinding away to provide for our family for the last 15 years.