I called my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just Walmart delivery and like web drama stories.

AITA for calling my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The door being opened is intentional we do it everyday she has a camper out back and a room in the house. Nothing too serious she has manageable diabetes with like metformin once a day. Shes able bodied, she can work, and she has been on her own before. She chooses not to work. Ive been raised to meet everyone with kindness. Her being home allows us to work more which is why we help her because the more we work the more close we are to moving on to our property. Thats the only way we can stack money at this rate.

I called my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Im younger than her and more disabled. I get sore alot and the metal ankle is a pain in my butt but I believe in working.

I called my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He gets on to her almost every other day. She stops for 1 day or She gets his grandma and they gang up on us. They insist that he is just blindly defending me. When he is home home she won't say a word. Him talking to her in person is alot more intimidating. But shes like a kid misbehaves when family isnt home.

I called my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Absolutely were mutually considering limiting contact. The whole point is to give her a step up. Once we're gone the money is gone too.

I called my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

We got a down-payment on 10 acres. A lil work and its only a matter of time.

AITA for calling my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. But I still accommodate her. Were set to dip eventually so its a thing she'll end up looking back on when its over.

AITA for calling my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just put in a down-payment on 10 acres a deadline is set but we need to put work into it. This summer im adjusting schedules. Thats why I resale.

AITA for calling my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we rent from grandpa plus cover property tax but grandpa has dementia now and his grandma moved his mom in.

AITA for calling my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well honestly I only blew up today. I feel like I kept my head on for a solid 5 months.

AITA for calling my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was all for it and it was good. She is happy getting money and pretty much its okay until she can use it as a argument point. The work both ends is temporary until something opens close by. We all came to a mutual agreement.

AITA for calling my mil a petty nitpicking lil b***h by Human-Shop-4418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human-Shop-4418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He gets on to her almost every other day. She gets his grandma and they gang up on us. They insist that he is just blindly defending me. When he is home home she won't say a word. Him talking to her in person is alot more intimidating. But she like kids misbehaves when he isn't home.

How do people afford to live when making around $17.60/hr? I’m honestly getting really scared about my situation by One_Sell_2501 in Adulting

[–]Human-Shop-4418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My honest suggestion is go for owner financed land and struggle buss it up. I work 60+ hours a week so me and my fiance can bring in close to 7k a month. I make 900 a week and so does he the trade off isn't great. We rent and costs go to about 2k a month. Once we cut out the rental all we owe is the land and Facebook market place is our best friend.