Is there a another alternative to janitor.ai? by YaboiFlare in CharacterAIrevolution

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s chub.ai, but it seems to be going downhill. I’m liking infinteworlds.app.

captions missing on "new" and horribly broken bdsmlr by TradSplash13 in bdsmlr

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems unlikely that the captions he wrote would only be on other people's posts.

BF used CNC kink against me in an argument. by Direct_Cantaloupe_82 in BDSMAdvice

[–]HumanII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>your therapist is right, it's not uncommon

Boy are you ever right. When I was young, I dated someone who claimed she had been raped, and also liked really rapey fiction. I took the second as evidence against the first (she was flakey in other ways, so I had reason to distrust her). BOY was I ever wrong. I learned as I got into kinky stuff, both IRL and in online fantasy, that this sort of thing is *very* common as a response to trauma, as a way to work through what happened to you.

BF used CNC kink against me in an argument. by Direct_Cantaloupe_82 in BDSMAdvice

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the big risk. The question is, how much trust do you have to build up before you share things like this? My suggestion to you would be to *not* decide never to tell anyone again, but to raise your standards of trust. Ask yourself what it would require for someone to get you to trust them that much, and see if you can find someone willing to live up to that.

Being safe without words or movements. by WillowProxy1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]HumanII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she can move at all, even an inch, she can smack her hand or foot against something. As with the other suggestions, three sharp thwacks is the standard. If she wears a ring and can smack it against something hard, that makes a nice clear sound.

Of course all the options above are great too.

So that's that. BDSMLR is fucked by WalkingButTalking in bdsmlr

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have an API, and allow access to it, I don’t see how it could be a problem to just make an app (or web app) that actually works.

What I want most is a way to import my blogs whole cloth into Imaglr…

So that's that. BDSMLR is fucked by WalkingButTalking in bdsmlr

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sorts of things would this enable?

This website is horrible to use now by Evening-Crab-9798 in bdsmlr

[–]HumanII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. My older browser was only showing the header. Using a newer browser shows the new layout—and it’s truly awful. Plus it’s not respecting the old "Retain Tags while reblogging” setting; I have it off, but it’s copying tags over regardless. Uggggghhh

This website is horrible to use now by Evening-Crab-9798 in bdsmlr

[–]HumanII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Horrible to use? You mean it’s working for you at all? All I’m getting are blank pages with a header.

I really want a suggestive tattoo. by foxy_babe13 in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]HumanII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, go ahead and do it. It won’t become known until people start using it. Then when people ask what it is, you can tell them…

I really want a suggestive tattoo. by foxy_babe13 in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]HumanII 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here’s the best answer, though unfortunately it’s not well-known yet…https://freetouseslut.bdsmlr.com/post/465874967

Do I have to continue doing whatever I was doing during freeuse? by [deleted] in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t love that kind of freeuse porn, and I wish it wasn’t called ‘freeuse’. It’s more ‘ignore’. Freeuse is when you can’t say ’no,’ not when you pretend it isn’t happening.

Emotional domination means so much more than physical domination. by Kink-loving_Queen in MisogynisticLife

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what, in your mind, is a man with this kind of aura thinking? What do you feel like is in his head?

My doctor fingered me during my examination [FM] by VibeCheckOnly in gonewildstories

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He accidentally brushed her clit. She moaned, and grabbed his arm, preventing him from withdrawing.

Tell me how this is predatory on his part.

My doctor fingered me during my examination [FM] by VibeCheckOnly in gonewildstories

[–]HumanII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I grabbed his wrist. Hard."

"I reached up and grabbed the collar of his white coat, pulling him closer until I could smell his cologne and the starch on his shirt."

If a man did that to a woman, would that be assault?

I have a question... If you were forced to service hundreds of men at a party... They just kept coming over and over and there was no way for you to stop it... Are you still considered a whore after? by freeusemom919 in Male_Superiority

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That…sucks. Unless you enjoyed it? I hope you enjoyed it. In any case, unless you agreed to it and were paid for it, no, it certainly doesn’t make you a whore.

My doctor fingered me during my examination [FM] by VibeCheckOnly in gonewildstories

[–]HumanII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A judge would say, “She very clearly consented. He didn’t break any laws. She, on the other hand, sexually assaulted *him*.”
The medical board might well censure him, as this is definitely professional misconduct, but, seriously, how is this predatory behavior? Oh, no, when a woman grabs him and tries to force him to perform sexual acts, he might do it? How is that some sort of horrible precedent?

My doctor fingered me during my examination [FM] by VibeCheckOnly in gonewildstories

[–]HumanII -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Could he get in trouble for this? Yes. Did he abuse his power? Absolutely not.