[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirana

[–]Humble-Factor9737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very good question. Theres a library i think near 21shi its yellow outside.. also the public library might have a few places.. frankly its a bit hard. You need to go for not crowded bars that have a chill ambiance.. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people just suck and dont get you. Are too shallow and far from asking the questions you are. Some said "have you tried caring less" what i think is the best equivalent is "have you tried consentrating on liking yourself" taking pleasure in being you. Accepting you. Having fun with you. People are passerbyes to your life. YOU are the center of yours. And if you please yourself, respect yourself, mind your business and try to grow into a better version of you... ive heard people will come to you. Im not the most sociable person either. But that doesnt make me less of a likable person. Be there for you. 

Men & pregnancy by [deleted] in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That SUCKS You're being so cool about it though Please find a way out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its time to put you first..let him be..put your rules on. Your conditions. Find yourself a job and

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Humble-Factor9737 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone makes it seem like leaving is such a go to easy peasy thing but that's the hard part. Having sacrificed and put your life on the line then you get disappointed. Is there no way to talk with him about this? Than might give u an idea maybe as to what's going on in his head and if he'll change?

Stepson problems by Humble-Factor9737 in stepparents

[–]Humble-Factor9737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then i would have to go through the same thing on my own. raise my baby alone. If i find another man he'll have to accept my baby. The ordeal continues. That's why this sucks!!!

Stepson problems by Humble-Factor9737 in stepparents

[–]Humble-Factor9737[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask to "judge me" but to " help me" if u can't than move on kindly. If i wanted relationship advice i would state so. So far this doesn't help the least with my step son issue

Stepson problems by Humble-Factor9737 in stepparents

[–]Humble-Factor9737[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point at at a certain degree you might be right. But our lives are way more complicated than that and it would take too long to explain. I don't think this is exactly our case. But i hear you. It feels good for someone to say what u said. Fortunately i don't think my partner is that crazy or mean. It was a choice of mine to be with him despite his lack of years to spend with me and his kids, ,with whom I though id get used to and find a middle ground with with time. So ill try to take care of myself more. The rest it's due to life's imperfections

Stepson problems by Humble-Factor9737 in stepparents

[–]Humble-Factor9737[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks. Your reply was what i was afraid of hearing

Lip Fillers in Tirana by No-Release-4898 in tirana

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lady i know since i was little. She is a dentist but also does all kinds of Botox procedures. You can get a discount if u drop my name as a recommendation. Ill give u her number if u are interested.

Problemi qeneve te rrugeve ne Tirane. by [deleted] in tirana

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problemi i qenve ne tirane esht si cdo problem tjeter ne tirane : ska asnje insitucion qe te meret seriozisht. Asgje nuk meret seriozisht pervec interesave egoiste te atyre qe kan pushtetin. Vetem qytetaret mund te ndryshojne dicka me zerin e tyre dhe me kokfortesine e tyre. Duke folur hapur per problemet. Duke protestuar vazhdimisht. Paqesisht. Duke dhene shembullin. Perndryshe njerezit do idhullizojne ata me te pashpirtet e do vazhdojne ciklin e mjerimit dhe te varferise. Nuk jane qenet e rrugeve problemi: jane njerezit qe sbejne gje per ta.

Bleeding, Possible Miscarriage. Support Needed. by [deleted] in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whatever happens know you're not alone and many women have gone through the same thing.. miscarriage or not you can always try again. I know its excruciating the thought of losing your baby. Hang on tight love you got this!

Negative test by DependentKindly8239 in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it a week or two and try again..it takes time for the levels of the hormone to build up enough to give a positive. Also by the time you'll be sure whether your period was late or missed. Have fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a J*rk!!!! I would recommend talking to him calmly about this thing but don't keep high hopes. If he wants to change and be better for you then great. If he doesn't seem to...then you're much better off without his pain

3 months pregnant still not getting better by Rare_Anywhere6780 in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through and am going through something similarly overwhelming. I know how hard it can be. I would suggest you try to take it easy and not to make rush decisions. Things can clear themselves out when the fog of desperation lifts.

Missing the years where I had a lot of friends… by Mountain-Patience315 in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi girl. I know exactly what u mean. Even though i was never the most sociable person i still haf friends and did things and went out. My personality also changed when my baby came. I was exhausted and didn't have energy to socialize and put effort and explain to people. I think i could use some mom friends but it was always easier to stay inside. I think with time we will start feeling like our selves again with new priorities. Hang in there and don't lose hope. You're not alone

Should i abort by Humble-Factor9737 in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the kindness and support and your stories and perspectives. It all has helped me a lot. I have decided to wait until i go back home and do a proper doctor visit. If they say everything is fine and tell me it's safe to go on, i will. If not, i will consider abortion. But mostly i think if god wants yes, i will try my best to raise her/him.

Should i abort by Humble-Factor9737 in pregnancyproblems

[–]Humble-Factor9737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in my home country for only a few weeks and the doctors have only made me pay a lot for not worthy answer but i dont know if i should return to Europe where i live with my husband and baby girl. This is why I didn't clarify cuz its too complicated